i will be glad to pray for your friend. i know from my experience that loosing a child (or any other serious trial i suppose) will either turn you to God, or turn you away from Him. My son's girlfriend was also killed in the same accident, and her mother is very angry with God. I have talked with her quite a bit about it, and she just feels like God betrayed her trust in Him. She just can't understand how a loving God could let this happen if He had the power to stop it. A serious trial will make many people question Gods power or His motives. I am not saying that i understand that any better than she does, but i just don't feel i have the right to question what God is doing (remember Job!). i just feel i have to trust Him, even when it doesn't make sense to me. This site has been such a blessing in helping me understand more the true nature of God in general. i have been comforted to know that God knows my pain, as He did not even spare His own son from a horrible, untimely death, even though He easily could have. i guess my biggest piece of advice to anyone who is sufferring in any trial is to keep focused on the bigger picture of Gods plan, and trust that all of our trials are woven into Gods bigger plan, even though it may not ever be clear to us in this lifetime.
Thank you for replying and i will keep your friend in my prayers.
God bless,
lauri