Lupac,
Before I found BT I spent 30 years trying to prove Hell wrong in scripture and couldn't do it because the words everlasting and eternal stopped me dead in my tracks. I had no answer for those words. When I found BT Ray explained it perfectly. I had the proof, but I was still afraid to believe it because of all the fear the churches had instilled in me. I spent 2 weeks sick in bed until God finally set me free from the fear.
Believing there is no hell really gave me peace, but it didn't change any part of the process and didn't let me off the hook at all. If you are trying to get off the hook by believing in no hell it will not help. We must all have the experience of good and evil and we must all face judgment either now or later. There is no way around it.
Isaiah 26:9
My soul yearns for you in the night; in the morning my spirit longs for you. When your judgments come upon the earth, the people of the world learn righteousness.
Ecclesiastes 12:14 (New International Version)
14 For God will bring every deed into judgment,
including every hidden thing,
whether it is good or evil.
Romans 14:10 (New International Version)
10You, then, why do you judge your brother? Or why do you look down on your brother? For we will all stand before God's judgment seat.
2 Thessalonians 1:5 (New International Version)
5All this is evidence that God's judgment is right, and as a result you will be counted worthy of the kingdom of God, for which you are suffering.
1 Peter 4:17 (New International Version)
17For it is time for judgment to begin with the family of God; and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who do not obey the gospel of God?
Mark 7:20-22 (New International Version)
20He went on: "What comes out of a man is what makes him 'unclean.' 21For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, 22greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. 23All these evils come from inside and make a man 'unclean.' "
Romans 3 (New International Version)
10As it is written:
"There is no one righteous, not even one;
11there is no one who understands,
no one who seeks God.
12All have turned away,
they have together become worthless;
there is no one who does good,
not even one."
13"Their throats are open graves;
their tongues practice deceit."
"The poison of vipers is on their lips."
14"Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness."
15"Their feet are swift to shed blood;
16ruin and misery mark their ways,
17and the way of peace they do not know."
18"There is no fear of God before their eyes."
Start really reading Ray's papers and study them.
It's not easy, but we are all in this together and God is in complete control of all of it.