Thank you Roy. I find that it is easier for me to address an individual. Details become clearer and there is a warmth of communication not so easily or readily available when speaking to the world through the Forum which is rather like stepping out of the boat and walking on water.
We are all doing that here every time we make a post!
Samson, thank you for your comments.
You know you really do touch a nerve that I believe runs through everyone who is privileged to come to realize the Truth and to see, know and comprehend, that God is NOT going to destroy His family but is going to elevate us all into the heights of His Love.
When we come to know just a little bit about the reality of God, it then has to dawn on each and every one of us, sooner or later, that our loved ones may not be subscribing to the same understanding that we have. This means that their actions, thoughts, deeds and motives are harnessed to fear, trepidation and terror that twists itself into the need to become a hypocrite of the supreme rank of A class acting.
I know it hurts me to see family members that are not ”spiritual family” members, doing and behaving in ways for the sake of appearances. They do what is right from motives of fear not love. I can see it and they cannot and it hurts me not them. I cannot engage in the hypocrisy and I do not entertain their objectives to keep up appearances at all costs. It costs us in the end because we cannot make them see, or change. We cannot save one soul and we are not supposed to either. We suffer the isolation and the appearance of being aloof, different, in our own worlds, isolated, self approving, and nothing, no nothing could be further from the Truth.
Indeed it is such a burden, and I mean this not in any bad way what so ever, but it is painful to know Christ whilst being in a world so blind and so devoted to keeping up appearances don’t you think?
Beth, I can not trivialize what you are going through. It is bad enough when those people who want to love us and extend their need to touch and impress us, just can’t do it because of their idols. It has to surely frustrate them and invite all kinds of bad thoughts, false conclusions and assumptions to cushion their blind eyes and make it easier for them to bear their errors. Just think of the joy a person thinking that there is Hell, gets when they feel powerless to pay back, hit back, hurt back, those who persecute and harass them. It is such a vicious circle that only the Spirit of Christ can break and redeem.
I spoke with Myms somewhere in the Forum and I think everyone who has a spouse who is not quite there yet, we have these circumstances in our most intimate relationships by design of God calling to Trust Him more and Depend on Him more and to know His Love more as we become set free of condemnation both for ourselves and for others. It brings to mind the Scripture that says…
If our own hearts condemn us,…..
We all, surely ALL have to suffer the same things some time somehow, somewhere and by Gods love and mercy He appoints some to extend their hands of compassion to us who know the depth and pain we endure in the process of God making us into His Image.
Bless you Beth and all spouses suffering the apparent imbalance of Faith or Believe that God surely means for good because we do love Him. We can all be encouraged then, to continue to …. not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth, whether we have the worlds liscence or approval or not....
1Jn 3:19 And in this we shall know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before Him,
1Jn 3:20 that if our heart accuses us, God is greater than our heart and knows all things.
God is the cause of all things, circumstances and trials....
And Stacey, well you know what I think of you. You are just a jewel.
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