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coryd123:
Hello fellow brethren, I know this may be somewhat funny or maybe a weird discussion. I just wondering if there are any males that have been abstinent for a long time and then there private area aches because mine have ached for about 2 weeks and Im hoping that the pain will go away or GOD blesses me with a wife. LOL just playing about the wife, just trying to be comforted and cope with the pain. Thank you

Extol:
I'm a virgin still. . . sometimes I have aches, but usually it's from climbing over a fence, or getting hit in the groin when I'm wrestling with kids.  :D

Samson:

--- Quote from: coryd123 on February 20, 2010, 10:05:39 AM ---Hello fellow brethren, I know this may be somewhat funny or maybe a weird discussion. I just wondering if there are any males that have been abstinent for a long time and then there private area aches because mine have ached for about 2 weeks and Im hoping that the pain will go away or GOD blesses me with a wife. LOL just playing about the wife, just trying to be comforted and cope with the pain. Thank you

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Hi Coryd,

              I certainly don't envy your circumstances and I'm glad in this area that I'm not in my twenties or thirties for that matter. I remember being celibate(not by my desire) from 1997-2001 & 2003-2005), not a pleasant experience for me, but under those circumstances, I was probably better off. I remember an Old Friend years ago stating that: " If God would have made anything better, He would have kept it for Himself." And he was right. I guess there are some Males and Females too, that don't have as much of a desire for relations with the opposite Sex, I'm not one of them,  ;D. My Wife recommended that you take an ice cold Bath, but I don't think it would work, at least, not for me;  ;). God bless you for your patience in that area. Anyway, I pray that God finds you a good Wife, in that's what you desire, there hard to come by and probably good Men, for that matter.

             As a side note, as our resident comedian Musicman once stated in a Post: Sex is a MISDEMEANER, The less I get Sex, DE MEANER I GET.  ;D

                               Carry On, Samson.

musicman:
That's, the more I "miss" da meaner I get.


Be careful with that abstenance.  Afterall, the scripture tells us to celebrate.

frecklegirl417:

--- Quote from: musicman on February 21, 2010, 06:51:06 PM ---That's, the more I "miss" da meaner I get.



Be careful with that abstenance.  Afterall, the scripture tells us to celebrate.

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Samson got a little excited there.... he meant the more he miss da meaner he get... he don't miss much so he not mean!!! ;D
 Listen to the Musicman.... be careful with that abstenance.
   
 If abstenance is what you feel is right for by all means do it.. don't let anyone change your mind. The pain will go away in time. If there is a woman out there meant to be your wife you will find her when you are not looking for her. All kidding aside, you will know when it is right and when it is not. God will answer on his time not ours. Sometimes he wants us to learn patience and to follow our hearts not our carnal thoughts.

                                                        Your sister in Christ,
                                                                    Pam


                                                                

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