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Female/Male Brain
Samson:
Hi Forum,
This Thread is primarily meant for Fun & Banter, but some helpful insights are appreciated too. Hopefully, We can get responses from a close to equal distribution of Guys & Gals from the Forum Membership. Those of you that are Married will probably know what I'm referring to. Hope to hear responses from Craig, John From Kentucky, Kat, Rene, Crazy4Bam, Gena, Arcturus, Vangie, Linny, Grace(maybe not, ;D), perhaps Dennis, Ninny( ;)), Longhorn(may regret this, ;D) and even John Michael, who although was never Married, seems to understand their(Women) language better than most Males.
What I sometimes wonder occasionally, while sorta Day dreaming about Life, considering Why God Created & Planned things the way He did: Why didn't He create Males & Females with a Brain that thinks & Feels the same. We know He wanted to have many Son's & Daughters which necessitated having a Male & a Female to Procreate, yet Why not have a Brain that includes both Male & Female ways of thinking for both sexes in order to avoid such confusion, so When Males & Females interact, it wouldn't, at times, become a source of Stress. Now, I realize that God has a sense of Humor and such stressful friction was deemed necessary for Our spiritual development, but in those Male/Female moments, I still sometimes ask myself WHY.
Some Examples: My Wife and I were squabbling on Monday about nothing really important in comparison to Major World Events. It centered around Her response to Me about a simple non complicated question. She gave Me an answer about a question I directed towards Her about doing something and I asked Her what Her REASON was. She responded by saying: There is no reason, it is what it is and that's it. She apparently didn't believe a REASON was necessary beyond that. For six years, We sometimes get into that back & forth scenario about Me desiring to have a REASON for everything She says & does. My usual response is that there is a reason for everything, even if We don't know what the reason is. She sometimes gets annoyed with Me when I try to analyze every detail of Life and Why people choose & Do certain things.
Another Possible Example: Approximately 20 minutes ago, I Posted a response to Grace's comment on that Thread about that Email response of Ray's to that Guy named Aaron about Homosexuality started By Zander, Grace stated: Are We Puppets, I figured that She asked a question requiring an answer on that question, so I provided an answer, followed By Hope in Christs' subsequent response. After thinking about My response to Grace, I'm beginning to wonder if She really wasn't looking for an answer, but instead was wondering about; Are We Puppets in regards to holding back answers about the original Topic started by Zander.
In Summary, Males & Females; Husbands & Wives seem to argue and stress themselves out over the most minor and most stupid issues. Issues that don't seem to matter in the Grand Scheme of things. Well, if you desire to respond, having a little Fun and sharing Your take on this, go for it, I'm convinced it won't be boring, :D, ;D.
Have Fun, Samson.
Craig:
It's Venus and Mars Samson.
Her Side of the Story:
He was in an odd mood Sunday night. We planned to meet at a bar for a drink. I spent the afternoon shopping with the girls and I thought it might have been my fault because I was a bit later than I promised, but he didn't say anything much about it. The conversation was very slow going so I thought we should go off somewhere more intimate so we could talk more privately. We went to this restaurant and he was STILL acting a bit funny. I tried to cheer him up and started to wonder whether it was me or something else. I asked him, and he said no. But I wasn't really sure.
So anyway, in the car on the way back home, I said that I loved him deeply and he just put his arm around me. I didn't know what that meant because you know he didn't say it back or anything. We finally got back home and I was wondering if he was going to leave me! So I tried to get him to talk but he just switched on the TV. Reluctantly, I said I was going to go to bed.
Then after awhile, he joined me and to my surprise, we made love. But he still seemed really distracted, so afterwards I just wanted to confront him but I just cried myself to sleep. I just don't know what to do anymore. I mean, I really think he's seeing someone else.
His Side of the Story:
The 49er's lost.
Got lucky though.
Deborah-Leigh:
Too sweet Craig...being over half a century and getting younger!
Samson, I have to hand it to Pam...her intuition, wisdom and insight is captured in a profound, deep and true response being...no reason. Hah! That could mean so much or nothing at all!
The so much part is that any reason is simply a figment of a self justification of which Pam is aloof and beyond such denigrations and or constructs of a human ego, presenting for itself, its case for, or against a motion. Hence that reply, it is what it is, means the highest form by which the actual statement is, I love you and so there is nothing else to say of the matter. Let’s move on, my way that is in harmony, joy and appreciation for being able to let go of self justification. It is what it is.
Meaning nothing at all can go into this area of comprehensive insight to that domain of non-conflict that simply and clearly knows that what is, is what is and no debate or argument is constructive to the contrary.
Should I have been a lawyer or a preacher...? lol....I am what I am...you are what you are and I think your wonderful miracle of a wife, might quite simply without any fuss, agree! :D
What a wise Lady you are married to!...and what a wise man you are to love her!
Arc
Rene:
--- Quote from: Samson on May 25, 2011, 07:41:49 AM ---
She sometimes gets annoyed with Me when I try to analyze every detail of Life and Why people choose & Do certain things.
--- End quote ---
I'm annoyed with you for being that way, and I'm not even married to you. ;D ::) :P :D
René
crazy4bam:
This response is for all the women out there in this male populated world: ;D We were made different for a reason: ah! To drive all men to the brink of sanity! I also like to say:Yes, dear you are absolutely right. It usually works, but he is starting to catch on. I also have this to say all women's problems start and end with men:
1)MENopause
2)MENstrual cycle
3)Mental stress
4) woman
5) women
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