Hi Forum,
This Thread is primarily meant for Fun & Banter, but some helpful insights are appreciated too. Hopefully, We can get responses from a close to equal distribution of Guys & Gals from the Forum Membership. Those of you that are Married will probably know what I'm referring to. Hope to hear responses from Craig, John From Kentucky, Kat, Rene, Crazy4Bam, Gena, Arcturus, Vangie, Linny, Grace(maybe not,
), perhaps Dennis, Ninny(
), Longhorn(may regret this,
) and even John Michael, who although was never Married, seems to understand their(Women) language better than most Males.
What I sometimes wonder occasionally, while sorta Day dreaming about Life, considering Why God Created & Planned things the way He did: Why didn't He create Males & Females with a Brain that thinks & Feels the same. We know He wanted to have many Son's & Daughters which necessitated having a Male & a Female to Procreate, yet Why not have a Brain that includes both Male & Female ways of thinking for both sexes in order to avoid such confusion, so When Males & Females interact, it wouldn't, at times, become a source of Stress. Now, I realize that God has a sense of Humor and such stressful friction was deemed necessary for Our spiritual development, but in those Male/Female moments, I still sometimes ask myself WHY.
Some Examples: My Wife and I were squabbling on Monday about nothing really important in comparison to Major World Events. It centered around Her response to Me about a simple non complicated question. She gave Me an answer about a question I directed towards Her about doing something and I asked Her what Her REASON was. She responded by saying: There is no reason, it is what it is and that's it. She apparently didn't believe a REASON was necessary beyond that. For six years, We sometimes get into that back & forth scenario about Me desiring to have a REASON for everything She says & does. My usual response is that there is a reason for everything, even if We don't know what the reason is. She sometimes gets annoyed with Me when I try to analyze every detail of Life and Why people choose & Do certain things.
Another Possible Example: Approximately 20 minutes ago, I Posted a response to Grace's comment on that Thread about that Email response of Ray's to that Guy named Aaron about Homosexuality started By Zander, Grace stated: Are We Puppets, I figured that She asked a question requiring an answer on that question, so I provided an answer, followed By Hope in Christs' subsequent response. After thinking about My response to Grace, I'm beginning to wonder if She really wasn't looking for an answer, but instead was wondering about; Are We Puppets in regards to holding back answers about the original Topic started by Zander.
In Summary, Males & Females; Husbands & Wives seem to argue and stress themselves out over the most minor and most stupid issues. Issues that don't seem to matter in the Grand Scheme of things. Well, if you desire to respond, having a little Fun and sharing Your take on this, go for it, I'm convinced it won't be boring,
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Have Fun, Samson.