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zander:
What does this mean?

There have been 1 or 2 people in the past who i cant say i have hated but i should say, i didnt really wish to converse with too much.  Thankfully, these people didnt work with me.  One of them was a very good friend of mine.  Last year, we were no longer friends (long story).  I hope he is well and i wish no ill against him - but - i dont ever wish to speak to him again.  What does that mean?  Does that mean really i hate him?  There is another example of where a person disrespected me. I mean, again, i dont think i dislike her, but i would now avoid her and probably not acknowledge here, even if she is with my friends.  Do i hate her?  I dont feel like i do.

Any pointers?

River:
Hi zander,

 Just so you know, your not alone. I find this one of the most difficult things to deal with. Humans are not easy!  :D

 This paper Ray wrote on love talks about matters such as this. Even Ray speaks of his relationship with his neighbor. It's good to read it if you haven't allready.

http://forums.bible-truths.com/index.php/topic,3719.0.html

mharrell08:

--- Quote from: zander on September 21, 2011, 10:52:30 AM ---What does this mean?

There have been 1 or 2 people in the past who i cant say i have hated but i should say, i didnt really wish to converse with too much.  Thankfully, these people didnt work with me.  One of them was a very good friend of mine.  Last year, we were no longer friends (long story).  I hope he is well and i wish no ill against him - but - i dont ever wish to speak to him again.  What does that mean?  Does that mean really i hate him?  There is another example of where a person disrespected me. I mean, again, i dont think i dislike her, but i would now avoid her and probably not acknowledge here, even if she is with my friends.  Do i hate her?  I dont feel like i do.

Any pointers?
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Don't wish ill upon them...know that you are no better and have your faults as well...be thankful in the knowledge that they will be converted, as yourself.

The Scriptures, especially Paul's epistles, have taught me these key things time and time again. Don't worry about being kissy-kissy, buddy-buddy with everyone, because you'll only be fooling yourself. Just you asking this question shows the intent to not let malice reign in your heart...most wouldn't even care to ask.


Marques

Revilonivek:

--- Quote from: mharrell08 on September 21, 2011, 11:08:50 AM ---
--- Quote from: zander on September 21, 2011, 10:52:30 AM ---What does this mean?

There have been 1 or 2 people in the past who i cant say i have hated but i should say, i didnt really wish to converse with too much.  Thankfully, these people didnt work with me.  One of them was a very good friend of mine.  Last year, we were no longer friends (long story).  I hope he is well and i wish no ill against him - but - i dont ever wish to speak to him again.  What does that mean?  Does that mean really i hate him?  There is another example of where a person disrespected me. I mean, again, i dont think i dislike her, but i would now avoid her and probably not acknowledge here, even if she is with my friends.  Do i hate her?  I dont feel like i do.

Any pointers?
--- End quote ---


Don't wish ill upon them...know that you are no better and have your faults as well...be thankful in the knowledge that they will be converted, as yourself.

The Scriptures, especially Paul's epistles, have taught me these key things time and time again. Don't worry about being kissy-kissy, buddy-buddy with everyone, because you'll only be fooling yourself. Just you asking this question shows the intent to not let malice reign in your heart...most wouldn't even care to ask.


Marques

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Where's the like button? I agree with Marques here. We all have our faults, doesn't mean you have to be best friends right this minute with them, it's  almost impossible when are at polar opposites. We all will be one with God one day and it is only when we'll really be best buddies:) just acknowledge we aren't any better than them either,everyone's on their spiritual journey as we are on too, just different experiences, same goal:)  just wish them good tidings and pray for them. They will get there one day. Thanks Marques,  I needed the reminder. Thanks!

zander:
So its ok if i avoid someone?  and like they are in the same room as me?  No ill feelings - just avoid them?

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