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Re: adultery
Gina:
This book by Michelle Langley re Women's Infidelity is a great read. Worth way more than the internet price of $40 I paid (turns out it's selling on Amazon for $130! Wow, I got it for a steal. Love, love, love a bargain. lol)
http://www.amazon.com/Womens-Infidelity-Living-Limbo-Really/dp/0976772604
You can search inside the book.
I personally have never cheated on a man in the literal sense, but looking over my life--I know that I wouldn't have been able to stay committed to a marriage and this book explains why. It's really very interesting and I would never bring up this topic if I didn't think it was so important to people (women, especially) who are thinking of getting married or who are married and experiencing a downturn in the sex department.
This author is amazing. She's smart and honest and doesn't pull punches, ladies and gentlemen.
The thing I find so fascinating about this book is that she proves that although men have typically been blamed for divorce, a lot of times women are leaving their husbands and cheating on their husbands--not the other way around.
Bottom line: The men chase us, beg us for sex, we cave and then we reciprocate by basically manipulating them into marrying us and then we make them pay, pay, pay.
Men, stop begging us for sex! We're the weaker sex. We need YOU to be strong. lol
acomplishedartis:
I have read that Jesus is the head of the man and the man is the head of the woman...
At this times in history it seems all around that the woman is the head of the man. But you can't really expect things to be different when peoples main believes and life structures are so inconsistent.
But for the ones whom are maturing and learning the truths that we are learning, the old rules are slowly changing,,
I will ask God for the strength to prevent me to become manipulated with sex, irrational emotionalism, fear of social pressure or a very succulent dessert!
Deborah-Leigh:
Hey...woe woe woe woe woe...halt the lorry there Gina...! ;D
I have not read the book. Have NO doubt the author can pull punches. It is the conclusions that I would like to put on the table and look at again with ya....grab a cup of tea or coffee...lets look again....hey if JFK comes round you'll need something stronger...whiskey and tonic John? ....shoes and guns at the door please!...Big hug...hey John...hope to see you here. This gal needs a big hug... :)...me...talking about me...
Hey Gina...
You say...the book PROVES that it is WOMAN that are leaving their men and cheating on their husbands....okay...so what...what's the big deal IF that is true or not, statistically proven or not...it is not, TRUTH as in, I AM, the Way, the TRUTH.... so....are we out to shoot someone....nah...didn't think so....are we out to accuse someone, put the blame shift down the shaft and ignite the detonator...lol....if you light the detonator...the bomb won't go off....~ :)
So here's the punch line without the punch...unless it is the punch of a party...you know me by now right!
Gina, Gina, Gina,....folks have got GOD wrong. They still wana do like Adam and Eve and point the finger away from themselves...Go look again...Nothing has changed....
We are all in this boat TOGETHER....males, females, women, men, boys and girls...
It doesn't help to put the bitter pill in the mouth of a brother or to take arms against the men folks and prove a point against them guys...Us women folks have the goods...we do. God gave us the goods and the men folks have the garden and the tool shed.
We wana swap the deal out and get the power.....Ray says What is the balance? Jesus Christ is the balance. http://forums.bible-truths.com/index.php/topic,5506.0.html
That kinda of balance thought, puts out the burning fires right?...those heated feelings for or against the gender benda arguments that ignite feelings of right and wrong....Hey...after all...no...never mind....time up...but before I go...hey....
Gina...whispering now....put the coffee or tea cup down and get closer.....I KNOW those tears...and men can be real mean, jack a@@ immature, stupid and darn right imbecile...just like we can...you know...you know it. So find your comfort here...a good man can turn a woman who is an orphan into a Queen....read all about it...read all about it Esther...ha...my new name for you Gina...Queen Esther...Love you....look past the jerks in the palace....the King is on His way!...or you are on YOUR way to MEET HIM...no one else will do right...Thought so! and THAT'S your dilemma...be honest! You want nothing but the BEST...well....now which book tells you that story huh....?...the book of Ruth....maybe....
Big hug
Arc...be kind to her boys be kind...or ...or...or.....sigh...
Deborah-Leigh:
:) Foot note ~ Though Esther was married to King Ahasuerus, and many present day women might feel they too are betrothed to such men, in Truth, Esther was married to the Lord, in Spirit and Truth.
Isa 54:5 For thy Maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.
Gina:
Arc, lol, men aren't jackasses. Geez. Where do you come up with this stuff? Gawd. I agree, they're no different from women at their core. I'm just trying to get to the bottom of some things, and I thought the book explains a lot.
Oh, well. lol
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