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A Healthy Godly Marriage
Foxx:
Congratulations on your marriage newgene. I have not met that person to be with for the rest of my life, then again I'm not too concerned about if I do or not.
The way I see things is that obviously there will be a need for compromises in some respects but to be honest I don't believe that a man should "conform" to what a woman wants; neither do I believe a woman should "conform" to what a man wants. Would it not be better to simply be with someone who you already see eye to eye on 99.9% of everything about? Would it not be better to be in agreement instead of expecting the man to knuckle under when the wife is unhappy?
I would rather be single for the rest of my life than choose to be in a relationship with someone who manipulates emotionally or controls or whines or is insecure. And it may be that I'll be single forever then but I should like to think that there are ladies out there who do not suffer from issues of codependence or insecurities. Obviously all people have insecurities about some things, no one is perfect but to project that on to someone else isn't fair or right and as I stated, I would be happy be single than to deal with that. Whats the point of marriage which is supposed to be in trust and love if there is no trust or REAL love? ;D
I hope that your marriage is filled with understanding, patience, love, friendship, reason and respect NewGene! God bless!
Gina:
( If I were 15 years younger, Foxx.... Son, you don't even wanna know! ;) 8) )
I'm serious.
;D
theway:
newgene87 may the good Lord bless you both when finally Married i tell you that its not all bed of roses there are nooks valley's mountains desert.s to cross not to mention people but i found in our marriage when things got tough then that when i pointed the finger at wife i saw that 3 pointed back at me yep The Good Lord showed me to get my self right and 44 odd years on we are still going strong Praise the Lord Amen
newgene87:
thank you all for the words. it's official now. yesterday is now the greatest day of my life; but i know it's only the beginning of a long journey. i will live by counsel and direction of the lord and continue to pray for your younger younger brother here; i's need it! love you all...now back to learning some truth 8)
Rene:
Congratulations, Eugene! I am confident that your marriage will teach you many valuable lessons. :)
René
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