Well put Dave, exactly how I see it.
Where homosexuality is concerned we do not accept their definition. Your main gripe seems to be with the homosexual influence on our society...
If you agree we don’t have to accept their definitions, though, as I contend, then what do YOU mean by that?
To answer your question, what I feel many people believe is that there is nothing wrong with the homosexual lifestyle, and they say that's because homosexuals and lesbians are not 'hurting' anybody, they just want to be loved for who they are and it's their choice.
It is my own personal belief that I do not accept that "there is nothing wrong with the homosexual lifestyle"... I believe it is a sin (as the Bible says) to engage in any kind of sexual perversion.
1Cor 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind (sodomites),
Now it's my understanding, and I don't go around forcing my opinion about this on anybody, unless I'm asked (that's not going to happen).
mercy, peace and love
Kat