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Miranda_78:
Hello Everyone,
Can anyone correct me on this, i'm trying to understand why God has seem to forsake me on having friends, and/or a husband. I pray for good friends,and thought satan wasn't so cunning on Relationships i would have. I also tried looking on social media 'christian' twitter pages if there were any single good guys around and seemed to find none....because their all taken, or wanting to remain single...
Do i have to go on a hunt for a single guy? If God wants me having ANYTHING he will allow it, or would i have to pray for it?
Ray said, no matter how much we pray we will not have it Unless it's God's Will.
rick:
Hi Miranda,
You say your looking for a good man but Jesus says only God is good ., I agree with Jesus there is no such thing as a good man.
Your better off single in this life , you can spend all your time learning about God and loving Him.
But you must realize God loves you and will not forsake you so don't be to concerned about what things seem to be.
I find the more God centered Iam the less self centered I become .
God bless you Miranda and trust in God above all things because it's God who saves.
God bless.
lilitalienboi16:
Read
---> http://bible-truths.com/praying.htm
Be still Miranda. You cannot alter God's plans. His will, will be done by His intentions/plans/purposes.
He knows where you are, your desires, and most importantly, your needs--even if you don't.
God bless,
Alex
octoberose:
Oh Miranda,
I know- most of the women here really do know.
Read what Alex sent you and spend some time on that. Remember to seek First His Kingdom and His Righteousness. Work on yourself. Work on your temple and your heart. And I would think that looking for a partner when you believe in the Reconciliation of All and that 'free will' is a fallacy - I would think that's hard when you want a guy who seeks God first. Most of them will not agree with you. In the end, a man is not responsible for your happiness but if you let go He just might work this out for you in it's proper time.
We almost need a singles Bible Truths group. Kidding. Just kidding. :)
Kat:
Hi Miranda, it is natural to want friends and a mate, God has created us as social creatures in need of socializing. For a believer this is tricky, because it's hard to hang out with people that do not believe as we do, worldly behavior is totally contrary to God's ways. You must be around people at school/work/gym and meet people that way... if you happen not to be, then maybe you could take a hobby class of some kind to meet people, guys or girls. But just try to be friendly to the people you are around, show interest in others and they might return interest towards you. Maybe a casual type friendship might not immerse you to must in the world? But certainly pray for guidance.
Finding a mate for a believers would be difficult, but maybe not impossible... but I certainly would not think looking for a Christian is the way to go, as they can be quite devout in what they believe that is pretty much opposite as we do. Maybe just look for a guy to be a friend is the best way to start, you could determine over time if there is enough common interests if you want to even consider a more serious, getting to know one another, relationship. But I will say the way 'dating' now is certainly not the way that God would approve, and I would think it very hard to find a man who would understand proper courtship.
Bottom line is we are not of this world... the way the Spirit thinks and the way the carnal mind thinks, talks or acts are opposites, and that creates a barriers that's hard, impossible(?), to get around to find agreement in this world.
mercy, peace and love
Kat
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