Miranda_78 -
Hello Everyone,
Can anyone correct me on this, i'm trying to understand why God has seem to forsake me on having friends, and/or a husband. I pray for good friends,and thought satan wasn't so cunning on Relationships i would have. I also tried looking on social media 'christian' twitter pages if there were any single good guys around and seemed to find none....because their all taken, or wanting to remain single...
Do i have to go on a hunt for a single guy? If God wants me having ANYTHING he will allow it, or would i have to pray for it?
Ray said, no matter how much we pray we will not have it Unless it's God's Will.
I look at this somewhat differently than most.
If you are one of the dragged out Called Out Called Out Elect, you will be in a minority, and will remain so - in this current and present age. Being in a minority does however, include Our Heavenly Father and His Beloved Son - who when you were inspired by The Holy Spirit, you invited them to indwell within you, in your spirit, heart, mind and body. So there is no reason too feel lonely at any time, as Our Heavenly Father and His Beloved Son are always with you, and they will never forsake you.
You are on a journey, and at many times, you will endue pain and suffering - as part of you being 'molded' In His Spiritual Image (with your mind being continually renewed into 'The Mind of Christ'); and it is better to know this, and enjoy the journey, even in the midst of much tribulation.
We must never worry or be anxious for anything - as He knows what we need, and will always provide you with what you require.
With regards to friends - you can only have 'friends' of a like mind - and as most are currently 'lost', it is unwise to have fellowship (friendship) with any that are 'lost'. Your True friends are those of a like mind - as if you cannot agree on things, you cannot walk (or have real friendship) together.
About marriage, and I assume starting a family - as you are now His Slave as He purchased you with a great price - it is entirely up to Him. But He is not a master who does not inform you, from time to time, on what He will do - as He shares some of His Secrets with you - particularly regarding your own personal 'chastisement' and 'purification' by 'His consuming fire'.
I do not know of any more powerful prayer than the one Mary said to the Angel Gabriel:
Luke 1:38 (KJV Authorised Version):
And Mary said, Behold the handmaid of the Lord;
be it unto me according to thy word. And the angel departed from her.
If it were me - I would ask Our Heavenly Farther in Jesus' Name, something on the following lines:
'Father, thank you for giving us all life - and for your love and 'light'. I know that you plan every aspect of my life to precision. I desire to have a husband and start a family, and if this desire has been placed in my heart and mind by you, I know that in your own time, your will bring this to fruition. Help me please not to worry and become anxious, and continue to protect me and deliver me and my family from evil. I want to always do right and please you - and I know that I cannot do these things lest you be with me at all times. Thank you for always being with me, closer than any friend can ever be.
Be it unto me according to your Word. Thank you. Your Beloved daughter Miranda.'
I hope this helps you a little.
Kind Regards.
May His Grace abundantly Bless you with His Riches.
George