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nshan:
Has anyone else lost friends, family, etc. over your beliefs in God / specifically the main stuff on bible-truths?

It seems anyone I open up to that are my close friends (or so I thought) vary from being extremely indifferent or extremely hostile. I won't go into the details too much since I will probably be extremely one-sided towards myself.

I believe I am probably at fault since I am supposed to do this:
1Pe 3:15  But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear: 

Looking back at Ray's papers emails etc. and studying the scriptures here and there I still get excited and want to share with others. But like 99% of the time they completely don't understand what I'm saying. Some think I'm completely crazy. This is the first I've seen anyone flip on me. Some people just want to act superior I guess. Though I think I see the same exact qualities in me so I shouldn't be a hypocrite.

Hope everyone else's day has been well. I know this is probably the least of things to talk about compared to what others are suffering here but just wanted to see anyone else's thoughts.

octoberose:
And this gospel of the kingdom will be proclaimed throughout the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come.
- Matthew 24:14

We know the real good news and I think it’s a shame when we don’t share it.   And yes , my relationship with people frequently changes when I tell them what I believe .  They are so invested in their Heaven / hell scenario . I’m sorry for the pain you’re feeling .

Dennis Vogel:
Mat 10:34  Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. 
Mat 10:35  For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. 
Mat 10:36  And a man's foes shall be they of his own household. 

Mat 13:10  And the disciples came, and said unto him, Why speakest thou unto them in parables? 
Mat 13:11  He answered and said unto them, Because it is given unto you to know the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it is not given. 

nshan:

--- Quote ---And this gospel of the kingdom will be proclaimed throughout the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come.
- Matthew 24:14

We know the real good news and I think it’s a shame when we don’t share it.   And yes , my relationship with people frequently changes when I tell them what I believe .  They are so invested in their Heaven / hell scenario . I’m sorry for the pain you’re feeling .

--- End quote ---
No kidding. I even said God will save all etc. but it seems like he completely missed that part and said "I'm glad you got your ticket into heaven". Confused me because he was just putting words into my mouth. Long story short apparently he's "studied" the entire Bible but hasn't a clue on what he's saying (no scripture, not knowing different words, symbols, etc). He tried to justify his lack of knowledge with a degree, even tried to imply I was in a cult. Pretty stupid stuff honestly. And thank you, it hasn't hit me hard since I've had it happen before in different ways. But God hasn't left me without him, you guys, and a few others he places in my life.


--- Quote ---Mat 10:34  Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
Mat 10:35  For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Mat 10:36  And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

Mat 13:10  And the disciples came, and said unto him, Why speakest thou unto them in parables?
Mat 13:11  He answered and said unto them, Because it is given unto you to know the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it is not given.

--- End quote ---
This is spot on Dennis. What's funny is where I am currently living with another good friend if I laid on him everything I believe he'd probably become extremely angry or want me out. Here are some other scriptures I remember:

Job_5:13  He taketh the wise in their own craftiness: and the counsel of the froward is carried headlong.
Mat 11:25  At that time Jesus answered and said, I thank thee, O Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because thou hast hid these things from the wise and prudent, and hast revealed them unto babes. 
Mat 11:26  Even so, Father: for so it seemed good in thy sight. 
Mat 11:27  All things are delivered unto me of my Father: and no man knoweth the Son, but the Father; neither knoweth any man the Father, save the Son, and he to whomsoever the Son will reveal him. 
1Co_3:19  For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, He taketh the wise in their own craftiness.

Porter:
I have lost many "friends" and family over the years, but that's only because I'm not a very likeable person. My wife doesn't know what to believe, and I understand that, so I don't push it with her too much. My second oldest daughter is the most receptive of these truths and always has the best questions. The rest of my sons and daughters generally remain silent when I share, but maybe because they don't really know what I'm talking about.

One thing that has deeply concerned me more than anything is the way I conduct myself around friends and family. It means nothing if I preach to them the truth if I then turn around and sin in some visible way. If I could show them Christ through my behavior, then maybe they too will appreciate the truth.

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