Hello sfd,
I think it's important for us to remember, that God loved us first while still being an enemy. This is the way we are to be towards our fellow man.
To be honest with you, I've had better conversations with drinkers and smokers than those who pretentously try to look good in front of others. The verses you quoted have more to do with the doctrines they profess and teach. We all do things that are not righteous, and I can't see while still being in this body of flesh, how I could be perfect.
Paul, spoke of this type of thing, that we all deal with,
(Rom 7:15) For what I work out, I do not know. For what I do not will, this I do. But what I hate, this I do.
(Rom 7:16) But if I do what I do not will, I agree with the Law, that it is good.
(Rom 7:17) But now I no longer work it out, but the sin dwelling in me.
(Rom 7:18) For I know that in me, that is in my flesh, dwells no good. For to will is present to me, but to work out the good I do not find.
(Rom 7:19) For what good I desire, I do not do. But the evil I do not desire, this I do.
(Rom 7:20) But if I do what I do not desire, it is no longer I working it out, but the sin dwelling in me.
(Rom 7:21) I find then the law, when I desire to do the right, that evil is present with me.
(Rom 7:22) For I delight in the Law of God according to the inward man;
(Rom 7:23) but I see another law in my members having warred against the law of my mind, and taking me captive by the law of sin being in my members.
(Rom 7:24) O wretched man that I am! Who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
(Rom 7:25) I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then I myself with the mind truly serve the Law of God, and with the flesh the law of sin.
Hope this helps,
God bless,
Gary