Hi Justine,
I know it is a hard transition period for you to come out of this worldly system.
I think of coming out of the world, as separating ourselves from all the carnal and materialistic ways that people in the world are centered on, this includes the church.
Rom 8:6 For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
v. 7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be.
If the Spirit of Christ is not in you, then you are not seeking God at all, but the flesh. This is the people of the world and the church right now in this age.
What we are told to do as Christ's disciples is bear fruit.
John 15:8 By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit; so you will be My disciples.
John 15:16 You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain, that whatever you ask the Father in My name He may give you.
Here is the fruit we are to bear.
Gal 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
v.23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
v. 24 And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.
v. 25 If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit.
I think it is the mission of the church to get everybody they can saved in this life, because they do not believe that there is salvation in the Lake of Fire judgment to come.
We that are learning the truth come to understand that we are not trying to save people from going to hell, because there is no hell.
And if God opens someone eyes to the truth, He will give them whatever mean they need to find that truth. It may be that He does lead someone to a believer to help them come to the truth. But you do not need to find the right place to be where God can do this, like going to church just in case God is going to open someone and you will be there ready to help them. He can bring them to you, if He so desires.
1Pe 3:15 but sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and be ready always to give an answer to everyone who asks you a reason of the hope in you, with meekness and fear;
We are to be a light to this world, but first we are learning how to be a light. We are learning how to bear fruit and we can do this whereever we are. These fruits that we bear, come out in all of our interactions with everybody we come in contact with. the fruit is being formed in our inter being to be like Christ or in His image. We have to learn to be patience with all situations, to be kind and loving in heart and mind, not just doing it right, but thinking and feeling it the right way.
So this is just my attempt to show you what I feel like you can be doing now as Christ's disciple. Studying the scripture is a very time consuming for me and that is very important.
2Tim 2:15 Study earnestly to present yourself approved to God, a workman that does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the Word of Truth.
Hope this helps
mercy, peace and love
Kat