I would just like to announce to Spirit filled bonafide believers that I will be filing a motion with the court seeking full custody of one of my daughters. 1 Corinthians 6:1 - Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints? I'm bringing this to (before) the saints so that I can have prayer and Godly (scripturally sound) advice.
The reason I'm contemplating this is not because I feel like i'm better than the mom, but because I've been pretty much a stay home dad with my last three ranging from the ages of three to a newborn. My wife (unceremonized) prefers to work at this time. I thought the man was suppose to work, but have found more fulfillment in nurturing my last three since birth of each, then practicing as a nurse. I care nothing now of the world, its prestige, renown, commendations, accolades, etc. I have no ambition anymore to become anything as far as this world is concerned. It means nothing to me.
Well, my ex needless to say and i'm not judging is extremely ambitious. Bottom line is i feel daughter (seven year old) is being neglected and juggled between baby sitters like a bunch of potatoes. She (ex) has a lot of resentment towards me from the past. But, it's been quite some time now, and i've taken alot considering it's retribution. I no longer want to let her use my daughter as a pawn or to punish me. It's not me she's punishing but my daughter. It's not fair to my daughter when i think of the loving influence i can have on her like i'm having on my other three. But, i want to do nothing outside of God's will (Philippians 2:13, Hebrews 4:12). I want discernment in knowing i'm coming from my heart and not simply emotionalism. I had already went to court years ago and fought for visitational rights. But, why am i settling for anything less then joint. We both gave 23 chromosomes.