Hi Dave,
I'm glad you have joined us
I guess the purgatory idea gives your Grandmother hope for those who go to hell, will not remain there, but will get to heaven. I guess that is not such a bad idea. But purgatory is not what the Scripture teaches. If you go into purgatory at death then you do not really die, but the Scripture says..
Ecc 9:5 For the living know that they will die; But
the dead know nothing, And they have no more reward, For the memory of them is forgotten.
Psa 146:4 His spirit departs, he returns to his earth; In that very day his plans perish.
Ecc 12:7 Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it.
And the verse (II Cor. 5:08) that so many use to say at death we will instantly be with the Lord, well here is an email that explains that.
http://www.forums.bible-truths.com/index.php/topic,3138.0.html ----
I get asked that question continually. People think there is a verse in the Bible that says: "To be absent from the body IS to be present with the Lord." There is no such verse. It says, "To be absent from the body AND TO BE [future tense] present with the Lord" (II Cor. 5:08). NO ONE meets the Lord before the "Last Trump" as Paul himself declared in I Cor. 15:52.
God be with you,
Ray
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So you see when we die we really are dead in the grave, awaiting resurrection. That resurrection is our only hope. But we do have assurance in that Christ has risen.
1Co 15:20 But now is Christ risen from the dead, and become the firstfruits of them that slept.
v. 21 For since by man came death, by man came also the resurrection of the dead.
v. 22
For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive.
The hope we find in Christ is so much greater than what man has dreamed up. So keep studing the articles on the BT site and you will see the Truth unfold into a truely wonderful thing. And it will set you free from all the man made traditions that deceive and bind the mind from understanding the Truth.
mercy, peace and love
Kat