Isn't it strange that the christians can have their fill when it comes to certain evils? For example in my city, a christian church was on the local news b/c other christians were upset at the tactics that were being used to warn (scare) ppl about hell...This church had put on a play and when the observers would come in, the would sit down in a dark room and then a light ould cme on and they would observe all kinds of sins that were being reenacted behind a white sheet (in order to get the shadow and outline effect), they were reenacting/showing a woman having an abortion, men committing adultry, and every other 'pet' sin' that christiandom segregates. Then they showed the hell scene with the victims yelling and crying out in torment. It was banned thankfully!
Then the Baptists have a city tour of HEAVENS' GATES AND HELL'S FLAMES'...a very similar play to the above.
I totally understand how you feel Italianboy! For years I was so paralyzed with the idea that MY loved ones could possibly end up in hell and even though I had done all in my power to teach and preach and push and minister toward them, I still was so shaken to my core about it that I literally had to quit reading the Word, going to church, talking about heaven and hell, and I even had to quit praying for a while b/c I could not face a GOD who would do this to my loved ones (as well as let me suffer the torment of not being able to help save them and not give me a let up with the whole issue of HEll.) Finally, I came to my senses after begging God to show me the truth of the matters of hell; what a burden...the hugest burden that I personally have ever carried in this heart and mind and spirit of mine!!! So, hang in there brother, God is using this fear tactic of hell on the majority of ppl in order to get them to turn to HIM, but HE KNOWS THAT THEY WONT, AND THAT IS ALL IN HIS PLANS...IT WILL ALL BE OK...even those whom went to the mental institutions can handle being in there, and this is HIS will as well. (I've known of one who went to a mental institute b/c of the BAPTISM issue...), HE will not give any of us more than we can handle...try and rest now brother