Who AM I, We are flesh, God is Spirit. If you are troubled by this and to tell you the truth I was at one time. Sex and love got all confused for me, being a woman,(men can get confused too) until I was so humbled by God once in His presence and realized that the only reason we have any dignity is the fact He deigns to look upon us. Now if we are nothing as far as God goes, and God brought us into creation as we are (sinful through and through)but still very much lived by God then I figured if this God loved me like that, then I would embrace my humanity. Of course I would do everything I was inspired (by the Lord and His word)to do but no longer did I worry about my sins. That was His job to clean me up by trials and tribulations. So, I lived my life and at times I wasn't sure what to do but knew God would eventually bring me to the truth about things. I loved my husband and desired him at times and (love or lust) was no longer the question. I am and until I am made perfect when the Lord comes don't even try to figure such things out anymore. Celibacy was not given to me as a gift from God. And believe me it would have to be a gift for most of us! Judy