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=> Testimonies / Prayer Requests / Fellowship => Topic started by: OBrenda on August 23, 2008, 01:04:00 PM
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God has put something in my heart to say,
In some posts, especially the longer ones, there have been little pearls dropped in that don't always get a response back to, or acknowledged to their importance.
If anyone out there has felt invisible...
Please know you are very important!
In Christ,
Brenda
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God has put something in my heart to say,
In some posts, especially the longer ones, there have been little pearls dropped in that don't always get a response back to, or acknowledged to their importance.
If anyone out there has felt invisible...
Please know you are very important!
In Christ,
Brenda
True Brenda,
However, the reality is that there are so many Threads, Sections, Information to review that time doesn't allow for giving attention to every Post we could possibly respond to and give ample attention to all of Ray's material. As an Example, I noticed this Morning that there was many new Topics in the General Discussion Section since my last visit to the Site(Yesterday).
Approximately one week ago or less, I sent you a Pm in response to your comment on " My Big Mouth shutting up " by the Freckle Girl and noticed it wasn't in my out box, so it must have disappeared in computer hyperspace or somewhere, it was fairly long, so I decide to bag it, especially since I couldn't remember the content.
Time doesn't control God, but it certainly controls our choices. Logically, if your Retired, working only part-time or don't have screaming and nagging Kid's at home, you have more time to devote to Posting, Starting Threads, Reading Ray's Articles, etc, etc,etc. This is one of the reasons that I prefer responding to Threads versus starting them, it takes more time and effort in preparing a new Thread versus answering ones's that are already there.
Kind Regards, Your Brother Samson.
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What a wonderful thought to share with us Brenda! Thank you for those kind words :).
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Samson,
When I titled the subject "It's about You" you were the last person on my mind. :-\
And actually I received your PM reply concerning the "My Big Mouth" started by Pam. Perhaps you didn't check it to save you a copy. It shocks me that someone as generous with their time to post replies the way you have, would entertain the thought this was a slight torwards you. ??? This in no way reflects how I see you... :-[
I feel just horrid, that someone I have such admiration for thinks be hasn't been appreciated or given enough to this forum. In my heart, I felt that there were a few people out there, that were alittle timid, that when no one reflected back on their contribution that they might feel overlooked. This does not imply rudeness or uncaring to anyone. I can't think of any person on this forum that I have this sense about, do you? ??? Of course not!
I thought I was being lead by God, to stop a Lie the Devil was speaking into a few peoples minds out there... Not imply any wrong doing to any person. I apologize if I worded my post poorly, and will take responsibility for it...I'm sorry if anyone else read something more into this than I had intended....
I don't know what else to say....
Brenda
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Brenda,
My apologies to you, didn't mean to hurt your feelings, if I did. My Post was meant " Generally Speaking ", not to anyone specifically, but merely my realistic approach to things. I wasn't applying it to myself or anyone in particular, but speaking with my Martian(Men are Mars) Brain. None of what I posted was meant as a criticism or looking to blame, but merely an observation as I see things.
As my wife mentions to me on occasion, my brain is working so fast, that I need to give it a rest. It's time for my nap, before work, looking forward to writing you another time.
Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings, With Love(Agapeo), Samson.
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God has put something in my heart to say,
In some posts, especially the longer ones, there have been little pearls dropped in that don't always get a response back to, or acknowledged to their importance.
If anyone out there has felt invisible...
Please know you are very important!
In Christ,
Brenda
Hi Brenda, I really feel I have very little to offer at times, but thank you for letting me know and make me a little more comfortable in posting.
I would love to share more but must not be the right time now. :)
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Brenda, it's a beautiful thought and I'll echo it wholeheartedly. Too many times to count I've read such pearls here, so I also thank those of you who have laid them out without direct reply.
For my own part when posting, its the thought that goes into a thoughtful post that is of benefit to me, whether anybody directly replies or not. Maybe you've heard the adage: Writers are stupid. They don't even know what they think until they write it down. Of course, this is a forum so at times we might not get beyond the first draft, so to speak. ;D
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God has surely given you a very tender heart brenda. thank you for the love you share in your posts.
claudia
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Samson,
My feelings were coming from the fear I offended you, and may stupidly be offending others.
Like Dave said about writers...we are stupid! ;D
We don't always close all the windows, and point out the doors to our readers.
And we should be grateful to those that come in and add to the understanding, as you were trying to do.
If there was nothing to add to a post that was started, then why start one.
As I reflect and reread this, I see that my ego was in a rush to defend my intentions. I do try really hard to be sensitive to others, and balance it with honesty. I go over what I write several times to make sure I'm being clear.
Like everything we take credit for as doing right, Pride is always there trying to creep in. I know I was led to write this post, as God showed me something in myself to work on. Do you think?...If we truly understand righteousness comes from God, and not ourselves, we will stop reacting in defense of ourselves?
Reflectively,
Brenda
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Brenda, I totally understand what you mean. But we're friends and family here, and it's all good. As Claudia said and I second, you have been given a tender and beautiful heart, and you shouldn't second guess your own (well meaning and loving) intentions. (Easier said than done, as I said, I totally relate and put my foot in my mouth often trying explain myself so as not to offend others!! :D) Looking back, I wonder was it necessary even?! It's a kind of difficult medium here thru which we communicate, but we all appreciate and love you--please don't second guess that!
Love in Christ,
Vangie
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Samson,
My feelings were coming from the fear I offended you, and may stupidly be offending others.
Like Dave said about writers...we are stupid! ;D
We don't always close all the windows, and point out the doors to our readers.
And we should be grateful to those that come in and add to the understanding, as you were trying to do.
If there was nothing to add to a post that was started, then why start one.
As I reflect and reread this, I see that my ego was in a rush to defend my intentions. I do try really hard to be sensitive to others, and balance it with honesty. I go over what I write several times to make sure I'm being clear.
Like everything we take credit for as doing right, Pride is always there trying to creep in. I know I was led to write this post, as God showed me something in myself to work on. Do you think?...If we truly understand righteousness comes from God, and not ourselves, we will stop reacting in defense of ourselves?
Reflectively,
Brenda
Hey Brenda,
Don't feel bad, I tend to be overly sensitive myself, alot of it probably has to do with the environment we were exposed to growing up. This is why your not likely to see me attach any individual(at least not deliberately) at this Forum or criticize their comments. Whats the point ! If I believe that someones comment directed at me is obviously attaching or cocky, I might PM them or vent about the matter with a close friend, especially when I believe their being ridiculously picky, this rarely occurs, but is probably inevitable when imperfect Human Beings interact with one another. Now I realize that people are entitled to their opinions, but they don't have to be rude about it or cocky. This even applies when we dealt with Samuel in that Topic regarding using a Concordance, in his case, he broke the rules, he's entitled to his beliefs, but the rules state that we aren't allowed to teach Heresy at this Site, we joined this Forum for fellowship and to get away from these unscriptural lies. It may sound overly tolerant to some, but I respect Samuel's right to belief whatever he wants, however when he joined this Forum, he agreed to at least keep these obvious contrary beliefs to himself, no one forced him to join, instead he was inspired to pull a fast one on us.
Remember Brenda, whenever I answer someone's Post, my intentions are noble and many times make comments as an observer, rarely applying my comment to anyone specifically, unless obviously stated by me.
In God's Love Sister and thankyou for being a support for my wife
regarding her eventual surgery. Samson.
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OK
Somebody explain to me, how a Post I titled "It's about You" to encourage our Brothers and Sisters....
Ends up Encouraging Me?
Truly Blessed & Confused!
Brenda
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I posted this in another thread,
Hi all,
This post and Brendas thread "Its All About You" makes think we shouldnt be afraid to speak up among friends. If you post something and it way off base, its ok, its a learning experience, just dont be afraid to post. Heck you never know you might inspire someone else to post something i.e. Brenda's thread and this one is inspiring me to type this now. Dont be afraid to be wrong, just be open to correction if you are. Search the scriptures for your answers. This is a great way to study the Word on a subject, a great way to practice just in case you are compelled to confront someone outside of us about our Lord and Saviour. Speak up!!!
Besides, aint it one of the things that takes part in the LOF that we all have to go through, that has to be burned out....
Rev 21:8
But the fearful(timid), and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Eph 6:20 - Show Context
For which I am an ambassador in bonds: that therein I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.
Eph 3:12 - Show Context
In whom we have boldness and access with confidence by the faith of him
All in Jesus,
Anthony
ps This forum is where im at almost all day everday, at work and home, you will at least be giving me something to do
:) :) :) ;) :D ;D :D ;D
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OK
Somebody explain to me, how a Post I titled "It's about You" to encourage our Brothers and Sisters....
Ends up Encouraging Me?
Truly Blessed & Confused!
Brenda
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I will give it a shot. You wrote "It's about You"... that is you, not me, right? I am me and you are you. So obviously you are talking about you right? If you had written "It's about Me" then I would have known you were talking about me and not you, right? ;D
Jeff
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I am me and you are you.
Jeff
Amazing how everybody seem to be their own eye-opener, wouldn't you say WhoAmI? :D
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I am me and you are you.
Jeff
Amazing how everybody seem to be their own eye-opener, wouldn't you say WhoAmI? :D
I get it you guy's....I,you, me, he, she,......
We are ONE!
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You have taken the pebble out of my hand little grasshopper. ;D
Jeff
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just dropping in to say Hi and its good to know that someones encouragement
to up lift those who may think they might be alone, so Bless you all and yes
we should give words of encouragement, you just never know who might be
Blessed and needed to hear that at the time.
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Thanks Brenda!
As for me, I'm not good at writing things and it’s not my talent so reading your posts is just fine with me and it’s what I do regularly. :)
I'm not a good talker/speaker either. :-[ :(
Love, Joy
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Hi Faith2Faith & Joy,
Not all of us are gifted in the same way. We all have value and purpose.
I do become curious when I see a post asking for prayer read 250 times, with only 5 responses?
I don't take that to mean only 5 people are praying, or am I implying they should post a reply.
I'm just aware that there are many more with us quietly.
It's like having arms & legs we can't see.
By faith we know how important they are to us.
Hope all of you quiet warriors know that!
Brenda
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Brenda this is a great thread/post. I get confused on the difference. To be perfectly honest with you and everyone here I notice I really don't get many replies to my post. I'm not certain how many replies are enough? My point being I hesitate and think long and hard as how should or if I should post a certain question that's been on my mind, Fearing that it's not worth y'all time. Maby it is a stupid question or a question that has been asked many times. Maby Ray has written papers on my question and I just haven't got to it yet This might have an influence on me. In fact I was told one time that I should read all of Ray's papers before I post because most question I have will probably be in there. I can tell you this effected me negatively. I was reading the LOF series and had a question and that is what I was told. That was when I just started. Yes I have issues. :( :(
Thanks, Darren
P.S. Has anybody heard from Roy, from the UK?? I think he's MIA
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Hi Darren,
I think if someone told me to read Ray's papers first, I'd be a bit hesitant to ask questions, because they may have said that because I was being a pest. But another reason may be the caution to not teach. I think many have trouble knowing where that line is. I do :-\
I think we are all working on that here, sometimes we do better than others. Joe was helpful when he encouraged us to find balance. I think it might be helpful to define words, like Ray does many times to get a better understanding for everyone.
I think in our fellowship here we do teach each other, but a better word to use maybe to "Share" our understanding. In that way we are open to correction or clarification of those who have studied longer. I learn in a post, when many people add their experience to a subject. We all have different personalities here, some tenderhearted may find it a little frightening to be corrected and so keep silent. Some of our Warriors here, have felt badly when they just really wanted to help, but ended up offending someone.
I don't think there is a right number of responses. If I can't help someone, I will let others who can. And pray someone has the right answer for them. But I will read it and be blessed and maybe next time I might help. Through our weaknesses & our strengths God is refining our Character in each other. For those of us who post allot, in one post we may be a tool to be a blessing, and the the next day cause hurt.
I have come to accept that I will try to come from a place of Love, and when I miss it, it was Gods will to show me my Pride, or/and teach the hurt one to forgive another Brother or Sister.
I think it is good advice you where given for everyone to keep rereading Rays teachings. We don't know the motives of that person. I think this is a perfect place to ask questions, and in everthing we do let us search what God is leading us to do. Sometimes I've spent allot of time typing something, then thought better of it. And sometimes I accidentaly deleted it. And then I wish God had deleted them before I hit that Post button! ;)
You've been a Blessing to me,
Brenda
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Im a big questioner :D ill ask everything, without having any hesitation whatsoever...and i dont mind what someone else thinks of it. Im new to this teaching...so...i ask my brothers and sisters who are here much longer.
The questions i ask are probably asked before....but searching for them in this jungle called forum is looking for a needle in a haystack (thats a correct american saying..right ? ;D )
I feel free to ask anything i want....it is my level of expectation that is very low. If i ask a question, and i get no answer at all..i do not get disapointed.
If i ask a question, and i get eye opening answers, like in my question on context...i am very very gratefull, and joy and happiness fill my heart..to God, and to the people God uses to give me answers.
Love you all
Robin
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Great topic Brenda,
Awesome replies as well!
This probably needs to be brought up from time to time, I understand how some folks may feel unacknowledged or that something they thought was important and relevant is seemingly ignored.
You can see by the number of members versus the number of "regular" posters that only 10 to 20% of the membership post anything, when you also consider the number of guests at any given time you can see that it really is a small minority that post anything at all. Some people are more comfortable just reading, there is nothing wrong with that at all.
We must keep this in mind when we feel strongly compelled to share something and then not receive many responses, it just might be that the strong compulsion was Spirit inspired to speak directly to perhaps just one person out there whether it be a non posting member, a new member or a guest. We may never be aware of how something we shared had a huge impact on someone that needed to read what you wrote at that exact moment in time.
Perhaps we won't receive the reward of acknowledgement in this age but won't it be a glorious thing if in the next age someone you did not know thanked you for the inspiration or empathy or insight you provided at a most critical time?
His Peace to you,
Joe
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Great topic Brenda,
Awesome replies as well!
This probably needs to be brought up from time to time, I understand how some folks may feel unacknowledged or that something they thought was important and relevant is seemingly ignored.
You can see by the number of members versus the number of "regular" posters that only 10 to 20% of the membership post anything, when you also consider the number of guests at any given time you can see that it really is a small minority that post anything at all. Some people are more comfortable just reading, there is nothing wrong with that at all.
We must keep this in mind when we feel strongly compelled to share something and then not receive many responses, it just might be that the strong compulsion was Spirit inspired to speak directly to perhaps just one person out there whether it be a non posting member, a new member or a guest. We may never be aware of how something we shared had a huge impact on someone that needed to read what you wrote at that exact moment in time.
Perhaps we won't receive the reward of acknowledgement in this age but won't it be a glorious thing if in the next age someone you did not know thanked you for the inspiration or empathy or insight you provided at a most critical time?
His Peace to you,
Joe
Excellent point, Joe, especially about the Guests who read our Posts.
Kind Regards, Samson.
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In some posts, especially the longer ones, there have been little pearls dropped in that don't always get a response back to, or acknowledged to their importance.
If anyone out there has felt invisible...
Please know you are very important
It happens hundreds all the time and will continue to happen :D
I just have to remember that I am His slave, doing what He wants me to to do and that "no special treatment is warrented because I am simply obeying Him.
Look t these points that Jesus made
(Luk 17:1) Then said he unto the disciples, It is impossible but that offenses will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come!
(Luk 17:3) Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.
(Luk 17:4) And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.
(Luk 17:7) But which of you, having a servant plowing or feeding cattle, will say unto him by and by, when he is come from the field, Go and sit down to meat?
(Luk 17:8) And will not rather say unto him, Make ready wherewith I may sup, and gird thyself, and serve me, till I have eaten and drunken; and afterward thou shalt eat and drink?
(Luk 17:9) Doth he thank that servant because he did the things that were commanded him? I think not.
(Luk 17:10) So likewise ye, when ye shall have done all those things which are commanded you, say, We are unprofitable servants: we have done that which was our duty to do.
Rejoice and again I say Rejoice....
Beloved