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Title: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: dogcombat on January 25, 2007, 02:02:08 PM
One day, while pondering circumstances beyond my control, (which is more often than I'd like to admit) I prayed that God would change my circumstances so that I'd be free of all my burdens.  The Spirit put a groan upon me that said "That was VERY Selfish of you.  Your circumstances caused you to pray, why aren't you thankful for them in that regard?"

With that being the case, I then prayed a different prayer that I would NEVER have prayed.  It went like this.  (along the lines of a reply that Ray Gave to a person who wondered why pray when God is in charge)

Father, I THANK you for the blessing of a new day.  I thank you for the circumstances that you have used to cause me to come to you in prayer.

I give up on

My AMBITIOUS goals in exchange for your unfolding PURPOSE in my life.

My desire to be RESCUED out of my troubles, in exchange for being TRANSFORMED by the counsel of your will as a result of them.

My ANXIETIES about my circumstances, in exchange for your Rest & UNDERSTANDING.

My DREAMS in exchange for your VISION of my life.

You probably get the gist of where I'm going with this.  Much of my prayers for the longest time have been "Father do this for me, Do that for me........"  Instead of this, I now ask Him to teach me to live contented with what He has provided me today.  And for that, this season will bear the fruit from the seeds He has planted.

Ches
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: brothertoall on January 25, 2007, 03:10:59 PM
Ches that was wonderful. At times I too am so concerned about me,myself and I that I forget that it is He that I must wait upon and He that must do it in me and to pray for those who ask for prayer and to put my brothers and sisters first.

 I will catch myself praying for someone and then try and slide my selfish praying in between.

 Thank you Ches for that post.

bobby
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: hillsbororiver on January 25, 2007, 07:24:02 PM
Ches,

Amen!

A great post Brother, this is a reminder many of us can use.

Thank you,

Joe
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: gmik on January 25, 2007, 10:51:04 PM
Ches, if you have read any of my other posts you will know how I wrestle w/ this.  Thank you for putting it so simply for me. The contentment "thing" is a hard one for me. I grumble about my job, or house, or town, or hubby,  forgetting that ALL is from HIM.

It is thru the circumstances(that He caused)  that cause me to pray (fellowship) with my Lord. Not the other way around!!

gratefully yours,
gena :D
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: John on January 27, 2007, 11:34:49 AM
Thank you Ches.

Peace,
John

Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: DWIGHT on January 27, 2007, 03:26:21 PM
Thanks Ches,

I think we all needed that.  It's just like Satan to take something so spiritual like prayer and turn it something so carnal as selfishness.

God be with you and us!

Dwight
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: Deborah-Leigh on January 27, 2007, 03:56:48 PM

Father, I THANK you for the blessing of a new day.  I thank you for the circumstances that you have used to cause me to come to you in prayer.

I give up on


My AMBITIOUS goals in exchange for your unfolding PURPOSE in my life.

My desire to be RESCUED out of my troubles, in exchange for being TRANSFORMED by the counsel of your will as a result of them.
My ANXIETIES about my circumstances, in exchange for your Rest & UNDERSTANDING.

My DREAMS in exchange for your VISION of my life.


THATS A KEEPER! :D

Peace to you

Arctururs :)
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: PKnowler on January 29, 2007, 11:55:48 PM
One day, while pondering circumstances beyond my control, (which is more often than I'd like to admit) I prayed that God would change my circumstances so that I'd be free of all my burdens.  The Spirit put a groan upon me that said "That was VERY Selfish of you.  Your circumstances caused you to pray, why aren't you thankful for them in that regard?"

With that being the case, I then prayed a different prayer that I would NEVER have prayed.  It went like this.  (along the lines of a reply that Ray Gave to a person who wondered why pray when God is in charge)

Father, I THANK you for the blessing of a new day.  I thank you for the circumstances that you have used to cause me to come to you in prayer.

I give up on

My AMBITIOUS goals in exchange for your unfolding PURPOSE in my life.

My desire to be RESCUED out of my troubles, in exchange for being TRANSFORMED by the counsel of your will as a result of them.

My ANXIETIES about my circumstances, in exchange for your Rest & UNDERSTANDING.

My DREAMS in exchange for your VISION of my life.

You probably get the gist of where I'm going with this.  Much of my prayers for the longest time have been "Father do this for me, Do that for me........"  Instead of this, I now ask Him to teach me to live contented with what He has provided me today.  And for that, this season will bear the fruit from the seeds He has planted.

Ches


Hi Ches,

   Thanks for sharing that with us. I like it!  I need to pray like this more often. It brings peace just to read it.
It's awesome to surrender to God's Will.

Blessings, Paula  :)
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: hebrewroots98 on January 31, 2007, 04:28:01 AM
Ches, that is beautiful!  Thank you for the reminder and encouragment.  I have been there and done that all too many times.  We are all still trying to grow up in Him and it is a slow go for most of us I am sure!
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: dogcombat on February 13, 2007, 05:00:12 PM
To All,

I hope to continue to pray SELFLESSLY for each of you, as opposed to SELFISHLY (every man for himself).

Ches
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: PKnowler on February 13, 2007, 05:06:10 PM
Thanks for your prayers Ches! We do need to remember to pray for each other.  ;)

Blessings, Paula  :)
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: Deborah-Leigh on February 14, 2007, 05:59:08 PM
I hope to continue to pray SELFLESSLY for each of you, as opposed to SELFISHLY (every man for himself).

Thank you Ches....

Peace to you

Arcturus  :)
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: DWIGHT on February 14, 2007, 11:43:11 PM
Arcturus,

You really have a way with words.  I just love you sister. :)

Your brother in the Lord,

Dwight
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: Deborah-Leigh on February 15, 2007, 04:01:54 PM
Hey Dwight

I too recognise you as a brother.....thank you :)

However.... I do not think your sweet compliment should be recieved by me because, credit where credit is due.... ;D...the blue part of my post was quotting Ches! ;D

Appologies Ches. and Dwight....I should have been more specific.

Pl;ease forgive me.......may I still have the compliment... ;D

Only kidding..   ;D :D

I do know you love me and your love is precious in His sight and mine.

You are a precious brother Dwight

Peace to you

Arcturus :)
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: DWIGHT on February 15, 2007, 11:56:28 PM
Arcturus,

I didn't notice the blue until now, but the compliment stands and always will ;D  Your'e my precious eloquent sister and dearly beloved!!!!! :-* That's a holy kiss!! ;)

Your brother,

Dwight

Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: jennie on February 16, 2007, 12:45:57 AM
Hey, I just noticed in this thread a reply from Bobby. Are you back Bobby or does anyone know if he is?
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: hebrewroots98 on February 16, 2007, 01:11:07 AM
Hi Jenny,

I noticed that Bobby's post on this thread was posted on Jan. 25th..  I did not see anything else, did you?

take care!     
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: rrammfcitktturjsp on February 16, 2007, 01:14:57 AM
Jennie,

  No Bobby is not back.  That was a post that he posted before things went down.

  Sincerely,



  Anne C. McGuire
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: iris on February 16, 2007, 12:33:36 PM
Hi Ches,

That was a great post.
Thanks for sharing it.


Iris
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: ara on February 25, 2007, 03:29:38 AM
 ches im in the same situation, thanks for the insights. :)
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: cjwood on July 26, 2007, 03:58:42 AM
One day, while pondering circumstances beyond my control, (which is more often than I'd like to admit) I prayed that God would change my circumstances so that I'd be free of all my burdens.  The Spirit put a groan upon me that said "That was VERY Selfish of you.  Your circumstances caused you to pray, why aren't you thankful for them in that regard?"

With that being the case, I then prayed a different prayer that I would NEVER have prayed.  It went like this.  (along the lines of a reply that Ray Gave to a person who wondered why pray when God is in charge)

Father, I THANK you for the blessing of a new day.  I thank you for the circumstances that you have used to cause me to come to you in prayer.

I give up on

My AMBITIOUS goals in exchange for your unfolding PURPOSE in my life.

My desire to be RESCUED out of my troubles, in exchange for being TRANSFORMED by the counsel of your will as a result of them.

My ANXIETIES about my circumstances, in exchange for your Rest & UNDERSTANDING.

My DREAMS in exchange for your VISION of my life.

You probably get the gist of where I'm going with this.  Much of my prayers for the longest time have been "Father do this for me, Do that for me........"  Instead of this, I now ask Him to teach me to live contented with what He has provided me today.  And for that, this season will bear the fruit from the seeds He has planted.

Ches


hi ches,
your my selfish prayers post has been recircling on the forums recently and so i went to the link and read it for myself.  sure enough it blew me away and my heart was touched so deeply by the words God gave you for all of us.  everytime i come to the forums it becomes more clear to me that God is speaking to us by us and i am again reminded how REAL He is, and how CLOSE He is.  and again i am humbled by His love, and honored that He is my Abba Father.  i know your selfish prayer post was written many months ago (actually one month from the day i found out my husband was being unfaithful to me), but it is now that God wanted me to read it.  thank you.

your sister in Him,
claudia
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: dogcombat on July 27, 2007, 12:43:29 PM
You're very welcome Claudia.  When we leave our first love, He ALWAYS knows how to draw us back to him.

God be with you.
Ches
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: DuluthGA on July 28, 2007, 04:08:03 AM
Yep, I've copied and printed it and stuck it in a place where I will view it often... many many thanks Ches...  :)

Love, Janice
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: dogcombat on July 28, 2007, 09:17:56 AM
Your welcome Janice

Ches
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: cjwood on July 30, 2007, 06:21:15 PM
You're very welcome Claudia.  When we leave our first love, He ALWAYS knows how to draw us back to him.

God be with you.
Ches

and His drawing me back has indeed always been the actual dragging type.  dragging me along so that i am even more humbled and grateful when He stands me on my feet and dusts off all the stuff that was dragged along with me, and He heals the "road rash" from the dragging.

thanks again for your sharing the post.  i wrote it down and am gonna email it to all my earthly siblings so they can read it too.  i hope that is ok.

sincerely,
claudia
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: dogcombat on July 31, 2007, 09:41:10 AM
Sure!! Go right ahead

Ches
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: Seraphim on August 01, 2007, 08:39:42 AM
Hey there dogcombat,
Because I live in Christchurch New Zealand, I'm posting stuff at 3-6 in the morning while everybody is ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ. So is a good time to pray for you and everybody on this website. That God go clean out the rubbish, so that we can be his instrument and co-leaders in the Holy Spirit - to help make the world a more beautiful place. That one day multitudes will raise up their hands and sing "Holy holy holy to our great awesome Jehovah!"

Thankyou for your honesty and forthrightness and God bless you. And lots of stuff is going to happen for you and you will be singing and thanking him that Yahweh.

You know, I be thinking that people don't really choose God, but God chooses us and then lo and behold: Ray was saying the same thing and that it is in the bible. Hey, I didn't know that! OK, I don't know my bible very well. But, when I have a conviction in my heart - and then I find that the bible says this, or the Quran says that. And I say "WOW!"
Love Seraphim ;)
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: dogcombat on August 10, 2007, 04:44:28 PM
Thanks Seraphim,

Now you can get some rest ;) :D

Ches
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: doreen on August 21, 2007, 10:36:52 PM
Hi and thanks for your wonderful post. 

I relate to what you are saying.  I'm also sometimes caught up with my own needs, stress, worries etc. and forget that it's God's will that is causing everything to work out as He planned.  I'm grateful for every time I can pray and say thanks.

God be with you,
D
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: gmik on August 23, 2007, 02:02:29 AM
 ;D  Road rash indeed!!!  Good one Claudia.   D  good to see ya posting!!!
Title: Re: My Selfish Prayers
Post by: skydreamers on August 23, 2007, 04:47:35 AM
So glad this thread was brought to the forefront again.

That is a truly awesome prayer Ches, thanks so much for sharing....!!!

Peace,
Diana