Alex,
Does he know where you are?
I'm no expert but he sounds like he is mentally ill, and is hearing voices & hallucinating. I would seriously consider bringing this to the Police. It doesn't sound like he wants to hurt you, but he is afraid and begging you not to hurt him. Either way I'd say he is probably dangerous.
Please protect yourself, see what others here think...
Pray,
Brenda
I am currently about 1 1/2 years out of a 4 year program to obtain my PhD. in Criminology. Report this guy ASAP!!! to the authorities, your life and your loved ones could all be at great risk. He may not currently know where you live, however with a good ISP (Internet Service Provider) address locator one can find out your physical address very easily. I could locate anyone from myspace if I were so inclined, meaning if I can do this so can he.
I have worked with Law enforcement concerning cyber crimes and this guy has crossed the line. In some states he would already be guilty of assault. I would take these threats to heart. God is warning you through the advice of people on this forum. Please take heed of the warnings, it is easy to become a criminal statistic. I know; I study them everyday.
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To give you a background on what the situation is. This kid in highschool i used to know, was made fun of alot by my friends, and yes on occasion, by me. Was nothing major, just some sarcastic remarks.
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Hi Who am I
Please quote the source of the excerpt you have posted.
It was very interesting and I enjoyed quote " Don't say "a schizophrenic person," say "a person with schizophrenia." This is called "people-first" language,
That could have been taken right out of the Bible.Rom 8 : 20 For the creature was made SUBJECT TO vanity (mental illness, addictions, SIN) not willingly, but by reason of Him who has subjected the same in hope.
Arc
Could you please point out the serious threats?
Thanks.
Jeff
To WhoamI (Jeff)
The following is an article concerning stalking, although written primarily for women, I believe it applies to Alex's situation also. Would you consider stalking a crime?
I do!
Modern stalkers send numerous emails to their victim each day. They will bombard their victim with instant messages, invitations to chat rooms, or links to suggestive web sites. Internet stalking is often an extension of physical stalking, although not always. In some cases, the stalker may not even know the “true” identity of the victim, having seen the victim’s profile in an online forum. (Myspace) emphasis mine.
This does not make Internet stalking, also called cyber-stalking, acceptable. In fact, Internet stalking can be even more dangerous than physical stalking because it limits the victim’s access to online information, intimidates the victim into changing their online habits and can open the victim’s personal computer and the information it contains to the stalker’s hacking. The good news is most law enforcement agencies have cyber-crime units and often Internet stalking is treated with more seriousness than reports of physical stalking. If you find yourself being harassed online, report the situation to both your Internet provider and local law enforcement.
Stalkers often try to isolate their victims from family and friends. They release character-damaging information, regardless of whether it is true or not, in hopes of ostracizing the victim from those closest to him/her. When hurtful or damaging information is made public, your first reaction may be to retreat or withdraw from the public eye. This is exactly what the stalker wants. Instead, fight character defamation and public insults vehemently. If there is truth to the information, accept responsibility quickly and tell your side of the story. The important thing is to maintain your presence within your normal circles and not isolate yourself from support systems that could help you in the event your stalker moves closer.
The use of threats or violence to frighten their victims is a common strategy for many stalkers. You car may be vandalized or your home burglarized. While these crimes happen all too often in today’s environment, the non-stalking criminal will not contact you afterwards. If you receive threats or direct contact from someone who claims to have been responsible for a recent crime, report this immediately to the police. The information you provide may help them piece together physical evidence from the crime and solve your stalking case at the same time.
Perhaps no particular incident stands out in your mind as being dangerous, however, when you look at the entire picture, what you see alarms you. Do you experience repeated unwanted contact from the same person? If it is someone you know, tell him he is making you uncomfortable. If the situation continues, report him to the police. If it is someone you do not know, go directly to the police.
Ok; would you consider those emails to Alex serious threats now?
http://www.lifescript.com/channels/well_being/Meditations_Motivations/10_signs_that_you_are_being_stalked.asp?page=1&trans=1
Alex--
My advice and why:
1-- I think you should file a complaint with your local PD now, because IF something else happens, then you have the complaint on file to back up your reason for asking the PD to charge him, should it come to that. If nothing is on file, then he might only receive a warning next time, leaving you in a potentially difficult situation. Avoid that scenario and make a report now.
2--a percentage of 'bored teenagers' left alone online for extended periods of time certainly enjoy 'messin' with your mind' and this could all be just in fun--but you don't KNOW that--file the report.
3--drug abuse can be a factor here, but you don't KNOW that he is just high and thinking crazy for now--file the report.
4--the Holy Spirit can and will guide you should you ever feel compelled to respond to this young man--he needs love, we all know that, he needs some boundaries as well--file the report.
My best to you, my friend--
btw, how is your girlfriend doing these days?
Joyce :)
Alex! What a beautiful picture! Thanks for sharing!
Brenda--were you talking to me? ???
if you were....you know me, Brenda--I'm fine with coloring
Brenda....oh! okay! Now I see! ... Hi Joy from the Phillipines! :)
Alex....you guys gonna tie the knot or what?? you make the cutest couple ever!
Joyce :)
It sounds like he is repenting and asking for forgiveness. Maybe you should simply just tell him you forgive him and that you will pray for him. :-\
Eileen
Hi Alex,
There are just too many ifs to this story. How do you know he doesn't know where you live?
I believe his spelling is intentional. I believe his last statements are his fear of maybe saying too much and trying to clean it up.
Growing up as I did, one becomes street wise as some call it. Take this guy serious. I think your making a mistake by not reporting him.
Roy
Alex
P.S. Daywalker, that is awsome to know you lived right where i do. I still live in fountain valley btw, incase you are nearby and ever want to get together for some cofee :))
P.P.S If i do get any other crazy emails or any threatening ones, i can keep you all informed if you would like to stay updated on the situation.