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Title: sin
Post by: dre91 on August 02, 2010, 07:43:36 PM
i've been separated from my wife for 3 months now. i've tried calling her and reconciling but she said the bad outweighed the good in our marriage. she wants a divorce as soon as possible. i know i put her thru alot with God illuminating me his truth. on the darker side i had a problem with porn which also destroyed our marriage. one other issue is that i didn't get along with my step children the way she wanted me to. since we've been separated my lifestyle has become very sinful. because im having finance problems i moved in with this girl and her two kids from the hotel i was staying in. i could no longer afford the hotel rates. now im in an adulterious relationship with her. i know that its wrong and i've tried asking family 2 let me move in but they won't let me. i've also been fellowshipping with this guy who is a jehovah's witness. i don't agree with much of there traditions or doctrines but he is a great listening. i've tried getting a second job so i could move out from her. i've also tried 2 find someone who needed a roommate but that's been unsuccessful. i know what im doing is pleasing 2 God. my wife told me she wished i could go back 2 the way i was but i told i didn't have any regrets believing in Gods plan of saving his entire creation come 2 fruition.
Title: Re: sin
Post by: Samson on August 02, 2010, 09:02:47 PM
i've been separated from my wife for 3 months now. i've tried calling her and reconciling but she said the bad outweighed the good in our marriage. she wants a divorce as soon as possible. i know i put her thru alot with God illuminating me his truth. on the darker side i had a problem with porn which also destroyed our marriage. one other issue is that i didn't get along with my step children the way she wanted me to. since we've been separated my lifestyle has become very sinful. because im having finance problems i moved in with this girl and her two kids from the hotel i was staying in. i could no longer afford the hotel rates. now im in an adulterious relationship with her. i know that its wrong and i've tried asking family 2 let me move in but they won't let me. i've also been fellowshipping with this guy who is a jehovah's witness. i don't agree with much of there traditions or doctrines but he is a great listening. i've tried getting a second job so i could move out from her. i've also tried 2 find someone who needed a roommate but that's been unsuccessful. i know what im doing is pleasing 2 God. my wife told me she wished i could go back 2 the way i was but i told i didn't have any regrets believing in Gods plan of saving his entire creation come 2 fruition.

Dre91,
         
          Your above Post is one of a very intimate personal nature in which I've had previous experience in, sad to say, but fact. Anyway, due the the personal nature and how I tread cautiously in response, look for my PM first and we will go from there, because I don't know whether you want direction, someone to listen to you vent or a show of empathy and fellow feeling or a combination of all. I'm not going to beat you to death with the Scriptures, it sounds like you've been beaten up enough lately, as it is and I've been there.

                                  Look for my PM, Samson.
Title: Re: sin
Post by: Akira329 on August 02, 2010, 09:53:53 PM
i've been separated from my wife for 3 months now. i've tried calling her and reconciling but she said the bad outweighed the good in our marriage. she wants a divorce as soon as possible. i know i put her thru alot with God illuminating me his truth. on the darker side i had a problem with porn which also destroyed our marriage. one other issue is that i didn't get along with my step children the way she wanted me to. since we've been separated my lifestyle has become very sinful. because im having finance problems i moved in with this girl and her two kids from the hotel i was staying in. i could no longer afford the hotel rates. now im in an adulterious relationship with her. i know that its wrong and i've tried asking family 2 let me move in but they won't let me. i've also been fellowshipping with this guy who is a jehovah's witness. i don't agree with much of there traditions or doctrines but he is a great listening. i've tried getting a second job so i could move out from her. i've also tried 2 find someone who needed a roommate but that's been unsuccessful. i know what im doing is pleasing 2 God. my wife told me she wished i could go back 2 the way i was but i told i didn't have any regrets believing in Gods plan of saving his entire creation come 2 fruition.

Hey dre
Help me to understand the above bold statement??
Are you doing the things your doing because you believe this?

This might be the root issue?

Antaiwan
Title: Re: sin
Post by: Roy Coates on August 02, 2010, 10:00:22 PM
I am praying for you brother, that Jesus will have His will and His way in your life. That He removes all doubt Who is charge. That you be given what is needed to fulfill His plan for you. That He give you peace, understanding, comfort and healing. In the name of Jesus, Amen
Title: Re: sin
Post by: dre91 on August 03, 2010, 12:33:49 AM
i meant 2 write that i know my lifestyle isn't pleasing 2 God. i know what she scriptures say about me as far as adultery.
Title: Re: sin
Post by: Samson on August 03, 2010, 01:19:03 AM
i meant 2 write that i know my lifestyle isn't pleasing 2 God. i know what she scriptures say about me as far as adultery.

Dre91,

          I sent a Pm answer to you to the one you just sent me. You already know about Porneia and Pornography in regards to your unfortunate State of Affairs, as indicated by your above Post. As mentioned in my last Post to you on this Thread, I won't beat you up with the Scriptures. My PM to you will clarify some comments regarding your concerns.

                                    Kind Regards, Samson.