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Title: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Snowfire on June 19, 2008, 08:46:31 PM
My Wife was diagnosed yesterday with Invasive Massive Ductal Carcinoma and Cancer of the Lymph Node in her left breast.  I ask for the Prayers of Brethrens for my Wife and I as we go thru this fiery trial together.

Thy will be done, on Earth, As it is in Heaven.
Rick  :'(
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Rene on June 19, 2008, 09:01:02 PM
Hi Rick,

I will definitely keep you and your wife in my prayers during this difficult time.

René
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: OBrenda on June 19, 2008, 09:17:12 PM
Hi Rick,

I'm new here, may I ask your Wifes name so I can pray for both of you?
His Will Be Done!
 :'(
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Snowfire on June 19, 2008, 11:11:03 PM
To Brenda,

Her name is Shelly.

Thank You so much for caring to ask her name and for praying for her.
Rick
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Robin on June 20, 2008, 07:16:04 AM
I will be praying for both of you Rick and agree with you that His will be done, on Earth, As it is in Heaven.

1 Peter 5
10And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 11To him be the power for ever and ever. Amen.

Psalm 31:
 24Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the LORD.
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Heidi on June 20, 2008, 08:18:46 AM
Dear Rick and Shelly,

I pray for both of you, for strength and courage....knowing that God is in control.  I pray that God will heal Shellly and I ask this in the name of His Son, Jesus Christ.

Love in Christ
Heidi
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Roy Monis on June 20, 2008, 01:02:30 PM
Dear Rick and Shelly

I've been through the mill brother so I can identify with both of you. My prayers are certainly with you and will continue, please keep us posted. Take heart: "And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren; and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified. What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who is against us? He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things?" (Rom.8:28-32).

All is of God, brother and sister, all is of God.

God bless you brother and sister in our joint walk in Christ. 

Love in Christ Jesus.

Roy UK     
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Kat on June 20, 2008, 02:07:39 PM

Hi Rick,

This is certainly a firey trial, I pray that God will give you and Shelly the faith and courage to stand strong. 

Rom 5:1-2
Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom also we have access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.

mercy, peace and love
Kat

Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Beloved on June 20, 2008, 05:00:00 PM
Dear Rick and Shelley

Sorry to hear this bit of news. Being born at this time there are all sorts of new treatments available. God is totally soverign and as you realize He is putting the both of you through this tribulation with a purpose. I will pray with the rest on this board that God will support you through this firey work  and bless you.

beloved.
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Snowfire on June 21, 2008, 02:54:17 AM
My Wife and I went for a surgical consultation today.  It was a heart wrenching decision but we decided together to go with the Modified Radical Mastectomy.  The operation is schedule for next Tuesday, June 24th.

We know that God is our Comforter... it's just that we still cry in His Presence.
Please keep us in your prayers.

Just a note:  My Wife had been taking Estrogen in its natural form for the last five years.  It is believed that this is what could have caused her cancer.  My Wife was raised to believe that natural things were better for you.  She had researched Natural Estrogen and found nothing indicating that it could cause cancer.  Needless to say the contents of her bottle of estrogen is now in the sewer.

Rick     
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: OBrenda on June 21, 2008, 09:40:18 AM
Hi Rick,

Thank you for keeping us updated, and we continue to pray for you and Shelly through her surgery and recovery!  My Friend was just considering taking hormones (natural) to battle the fatigue suffering from the "change".  After reading your post, that idea is down the "sewer" with Shelley's pills!

Do you have supportive family & friends to encourage you through this?
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: lorrie on June 21, 2008, 12:59:55 PM
Hi Rick and Shelley-You are in my prayers.
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Beloved on June 21, 2008, 01:13:34 PM

I am writing this as information for you and the board. When something is labeled "natural" it does not mean harmless.  Every Estrogen out there except one is synthetic. The "natural" one is Premarin...it comes from horses urine...it is totally natural and bio-identical for the horse.

All other estrogens and progesterone/progestins (the 2nd hormone) are synthesized by the pharmaceutical ....but are bio-identical...that means they are chemically just like your body would produce. This includes all those special compounded formulas as well.

Regarding estrogen and breast cancer,  it is not as simple as just taking these chemicals.  There are many factors not always known to the medical profession, including genetics. Your body is unique in how it handles what the world throws at it.

When you take estrogen it is metabolized...it is these metabolites that do the actions not estrogen itself.  Many people do not metabolize even their own estrogens properly.

There are also substances like pesticides and other substances that chemically are not even related to hormones but that because of the 3 D configuration bind to the same receptors as estrogen and when they do they cause action. There are many of these in our environment.

Eating cruciferous vegtables (they have indole 3), it causes estrogen to be metabolized to its least harmful metabolites. It is these metabolites that attach to the DNA and start cell mis-behaving.  Cruciforous vegetables are broccoli cauliflower brussel sprouts cabbage. Eat on serving a day. It reduces other cancer also.

Drinking excess amounts alcohol can raise the serum hormone level by 500%

The other substance implicated in Breast Cancer is low  Vitamin D levels. You get it milk and the skin makes it after expose for i5 minutes of sunlight.

Another factor is body fat, it is the fat cells that store hormones, they are not sitting there inert, they also produce a lot of inflammatory response. they surround these breast cells.

Rick and Shelly do not sit there feeling guilty about taking estrogen. They can test estrogen and progesterone receptors of the cancer and if present they have another tool to fight with .

Here is something also to ponder
SEATTLE, Jan. 15 2008 -- Postmenopausal women who take combination hormone therapy for as little as three years have a fourfold increased risk of invasive lobular breast cancer, researchers
here said.

But short-term use of estrogen/progestin hormone replacement therapy appeared to have little effect on the risk of invasive ductal carcinoma, according to Christopher Li, M.D., Ph.D., of the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center here, and colleagues.

The case-control study of more than 1,500 women confirms earlier, smaller investigations that linked combination hormone therapy with lobular breast cancer, the researchers reported in the January issue of Cancer Epidemiology, Biomarkers & Prevention

If you are having this radical surgery make sure they discuss the reconstruction of the breast also. Let the office check with your insurance before.

Rest in the Lord for right now.

Beloved
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Samson on June 21, 2008, 01:42:47 PM
My Wife was diagnosed yesterday with Invasive Massive Ductal Carcinoma and Cancer of the Lymph Node in her left breast.  I ask for the Prayers of Brethrens for my Wife and I as we go thru this fiery trial together.

Thy will be done, on Earth, As it is in Heaven.
Rick  :'(

Hello Rick(Snowfire),

                              Sorry to hear about your wife(Shelly), My Wife(Freckle Girl) and I will pray that everything turns out okay. I'ts nice to have a Doctor(Beloved) on board, generally speaking, I don't have too much faith in Doctors and Lawyers, especially Lawyers, no offense intended toward those members who occupy these positions. It was nice that Beloved shared that information with you. My wife's ancestry includes those who have had cancer related to your situation. Anyway, we will pray for a successfull outcome and pray both of you are able to endure the trial set before you.

                                            Faith, Hope and Love, Samson.
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: ailish on June 21, 2008, 04:21:29 PM
My Wife was diagnosed yesterday with Invasive Massive Ductal Carcinoma and Cancer of the Lymph Node in her left breast.  I ask for the Prayers of Brethrens for my Wife and I as we go thru this fiery trial together.

Thy will be done, on Earth, As it is in Heaven.
Rick  :'(

may god bless you both and keep you both in his care
god does heal.  a lady i know had breast cancer.  it had gone into the lymph nodes and she had a mastectomy.  she was to have further treatment and when she went back to see the specialist she was told there was no evidence of cancer now.
god bless you both
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: OBrenda on June 21, 2008, 09:24:34 PM
Wow...Beloved,

Thanks for sharing, that was very helpful and informative!     
(does it matter if the cruciforous are cooked or raw?)
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Beloved on June 21, 2008, 09:50:49 PM
No but fresh food is always better, because it is still alive and more good things are available. I cook some but like them bright green.

Do not go crazy with them though....they can also be goitregenic (those with thyroid disease should  eat them in moderation)

My favorite recipe is the rainbow salad, shredded broccoli in the bags. I put walnuts and blueberries and make a dressing with mayonaise and pineapple juice , little salt.

Sauerkraut (cabbage) is high in Vtamin C, I mix applesauce in it. The poor ate this in the winter. I get the stuff in the bags not the jars. I will order coleslaw if it is creamy instead of fries.

Beloved
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Roy Monis on June 22, 2008, 09:22:06 AM
Dear Rick and Shelly

I pray that the Lord may grant your dear wife Shelly a full recovery in accord to His predestined will, to appear to the world as a miracle for those who witness it. This goes out to Him many times a day brother because I know from experience what she means to you.

God bless you brother and sister in our joint walk in Christ. 

Love in Christ Jesus.

Roy UK     
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Robin on June 26, 2008, 01:25:36 AM
You will both remain in my prayers.

I am not a doctor, but have lots of experience taking clients to medical appointments. One of my clients survived massive breast cancer 3 years ago. The doctor left a port in her chest after her chemo therapy just in case she needed more. Last year we almost lost her from heart failure that we almost didn't catch. The cardiologist told us that either the chemo therapy damaged her heart or the port that was left in damaged her heart. I'm just telling you this so you can follow up with a cardiologist later so the same thing doesn't happen to you. It was probably a rare case with my client, but if it were me I would have my heart checked after treatment and periodically. My client is doing well now with an implanted defibrillator.

Lots of prayers,
MG

Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Snowfire on June 26, 2008, 01:27:29 AM
Hello Everyone.  My Wife had her surgery yesterday and today is a home with me recuperating .  She is doing remarkably well and is in good spirits.  We are at peace with what has been done and are comforted by it.  This has been a very humbling experience and made even more humbling to realize that my Wife’s cancer would have not been found had God not afflicted me first.  Two years ago we moved to this area where we now reside.  We had not yet acquired a family physician since we had moved there.  Three months ago I developed a sharp excruciating pain in my abdomen that necessitated that I seek out a Physician.  I truly believe that if I had not become sick, my Wife would not have resumed her breasts exams that she had so diligently pursued in the past.
 
Now we are waiting for her to heal and start chemo, and possibly radiation.

Thank You All for Your Prayers and Support.
Rick & Shelly
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: OBrenda on June 26, 2008, 09:41:16 AM
Rick & Shelly,
Wow...She had the Surgery on Tuesday and she is already home? How long was Shelly in Surgery? I give thanks to God as he will continue to bless both of you through what is still ahead.  I hear the treatments are pretty rough. I myself have been putting off having the test.  I have a prescription from my doctor to have it from last August.  I have made several appointments, but have had to cancel because no one was able to cover for me at work!

You both have given me a push to get it done.
I'm not sure if it's OK to post graphics under "Prayer Request" so please know I'm sending Shelly some beautiful flowers....And don't forget to talk care of yourself, allot of times the caregiver gets lost in the shuffle!  Rick, I will keep your health & spirit in my prayers.

Hugs,
Brenda
 
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Roy Monis on June 26, 2008, 10:57:17 AM
Hi! Rick and Shelly

324 prayers including mine are going out for you each day, sometimes twice and three times in the same day. Keep your faith and trust God; "28 And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. 29 For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren; 30 and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified. 31 What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who is against us? 32 He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things? 33 Who will bring a charge against God’s elect? God is the one who justifies; 34 who is the one who condemns? Christ Jesus is He who died, yes, rather who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who also intercedes for us. 35 Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 36 Just as it is written, “For Your sake we are being put to death all day long; We were considered as sheep to be slaughtered.” 37 But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."  (Rom.8:28-39).

God bless you brother and sister in our joint walk in Christ. 

Love in Christ Jesus.

Roy UK     

 
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Snowfire on June 26, 2008, 05:48:28 PM
To Brenda from Shelly
Please learn from me.  Your job is important, but your health is even more.
Thank You for the beautiful flowers.

Shelly

Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: OBrenda on June 26, 2008, 10:03:58 PM
Awe...Your Welcome Shelly, I'm going to make that appointment a Priority!
So...Thank You!
Brenda
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: cjwood on July 01, 2008, 04:23:15 AM
hi rick and shelly,
i had ductal carcinoma in situ and lobular carcinoma in situ in right breast 8 yrs ago. in situ as you know meaning in essence, non-invasive.  i had a lumpectomy, 8 wks of radiation, and 5 yrs of tamoxifen therapy.  this happened when i was 45 yrs and pre-menopausal.  invasive, non-invasive, malignanancy, cancer of this, cancer of that; it all will knock you to your knees quickly and you remember AGAIN that God is in control of ALL of it.  every bit.  right breast and left breast. when i went thru my cancer trial i had never heard of bible truths, but i did know that there were things that just didn't make sense with my loving God who wanted to kill His enemies when He made a new commandment to love our enemies.  but you both have so many truths to help you thru this gehenna fire. but just try to remember in your hearts that God will give you both the strength(s) you need to get thru it one step at a time.  i pray that His loving mercy will wrap around each of you in the days and weeks ahead.

your sister in Christ,
claudia
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Roy Monis on July 14, 2008, 02:44:49 PM
Hi! Rick and Shelly

Please keep us posted as to Shelly's progress, it was wonderful news to hear that she was out of hospital and home once more so soon after her operation.

My prayers are with both of you constantly. Take courage and keep the faith and the Lord will be with you.
 
You’re suffering weakness and pain...so hard to bear,
               Both sorrow and trials too.;
        But they will not last….they’ll pass away.

    ‘Cause He’ll measure ….and bring you  through.

    Not a moment too long will they remain,
       Though ‘tis hard to bear… ‘tis true,
      But in the end with spiritual strength.

  He’ll measure….and bring you through.

  Then in a wonderful way He’ll reveal Himself
      In a way, so completely and entirely new,
  Because as Almighty God you’ll know Him then.

    As He measures…and brings you through.

         ‘Tis always so with our loving Lord
            Be our trials many or just a few.
      He times them all….by His appointed time,

  Then He measures…..and brings you through.[/b]

      So child of God, listen, there will be an end,
           Just trust Him for His Word is true,
   Be patient and wait, for in His own good time

       He’ll measure….and bring you through.

                     (Author unknown)

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God bless you brother and sister in our joint walk in Christ. 

Love in Christ Jesus.

Roy UK     

Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: ellie77 on July 14, 2008, 08:21:51 PM
Continuing to pray for you both....Ellie...
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: Phil3:10 on July 15, 2008, 03:23:22 PM
Rick and Shelly,
I have prayed for you and will continue to do so. Your faith is firm and GOD is so good. Thank you for helping me realize the praise that I need to give to my LORD for my healthy wife.
Phil3:10
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: jterrell on July 21, 2008, 10:49:34 PM
Rick,  Will be praying for your wife. May the peace and love of God bring you and Shelly comfort.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Jterrell             
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: indianabob on July 24, 2008, 07:28:53 PM
Rick and Shelly,

It has been 20 years but I still recall the desperate feelings when I had bowel cancer.
God has extended my life these 20 years and I have tried to put the time to good use, but not always as I should.
One thing I learned though was to trust my wife and put my life in her hands as well as in God's hands.
It is a terrible thing and yet a beautiful thing to learn to trust someone, especially when you don't really have a choice.

My prayers are with you both and thank you for letting us share this concern with you.  It's all in the family.

Love and hugs, Bob
Title: Re: Please Pray for my Dear Wife.
Post by: EKnight on July 24, 2008, 08:03:46 PM
Snowfire has not been on recently.  I hope all is ok.

Eileen