One of the major problems with having a stroke is the tendncy to succumb to depression. It was explained to me that a person GRIEVES over the loss of body parts/functions just the same way as people grieve over the loss of a loved one.
SOOOO, it is extremely important to be there for emotional support as shock, confusion and mood swings are part of the
norm. (A good LISTENER is worth the person's weight in gold (save the lectures for someone who cares~)
I was in a horrible situation with the loss of my left arm and leg, especially seeing I am left handed. I REFUSED to feel sorry
for myself and made it my mission to minister to everyone who was struggling with their reality-- as many were elderly people who had no clue as to what and why it happened.
They even told me "Duane, you know you are incontenent, don't you?" I said FIRMLY "no, I'm not--I was born right here
in North America"! (That got a couple chuckles)
Well, TRUST God has a purpose in EVERY TRIAL he puts us thru. You will grow stronger as you face advances in physical
therapy. Be sure to make a BIG DEAL over every improvement God allows! ie: wiggling your little finger for first time.