Hi Responders & Others,
I will attempt to insert quotes from responders with My reply. Kat told me how to copy a particular quote from the Posts desired & put into my white Post area, I don't even know what I'm doing. I want to learn how to insert part of quote like others do, where it has your name, I don't know how to do that.
CRAIGS FIRST POST: Thanks for the Humor, for Me, it's the Knicks & Mets won the championship & We made Love too,
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Deborah's Post: The so much part is that any reason is simply a figment of a self justification of which Pam is aloof and beyond such denigrations and or constructs of a human ego, presenting for itself, its case for, or against a motion. Hence that reply, it is what it is, means the highest form by which the actual statement is, I love you and so there is nothing else to say of the matter. Let’s move on, my way that is in harmony, joy and appreciation for being able to let go of self justification. It is what it is.
Comment: Yes Deborah, it's true, no justification required, none really sought from Me, it's more of an obsession needing to know THE REASON FOR EVERYTHING, motivated sometimes by fear of the unknown of what a Woman might unexpectingly bring my way. Does that make any sense to you,
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FROM JOHN MICHAEL: Sometimes I truly think that God separated not only His masculinity and femininity when He created Man and Woman, but that He also separated His Mind and Heart. One would be ruled by one, and the other would be ruled by the other. The joining of the two would reflect His completeness (granted, in an imperfect way).
Comment: Often True, but not written in stone, as others have expressed, great insightful post. You would make a good Marriage Counselor, forget the Criminal Justice pursuit, help us poor Married couples,
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From Moxicarose: My husband and I will be married 12 years this August, and we are different as day and night when it comes to how we view things most of the time! And yes, I know that's the condition of the majority of married couples. Venus/Mars and all that. Tongue But I think it's interesting that what Samson said about wanting to know the reason behind his wife's doings and her frustration with his analytical tendency actually is the OPPOSITE for me and my husband. I am the one who wants to know why and he is the one who is happy with it just being what it is. I have a mind that spins a million miles a minute and he can fall asleep in 6 seconds flat. (While I am sorting thoughts and asking God to let the spinning slow down enough for me to sleep) The emotional side of things is still mine, of course...so not only am I analytical, but i go through the confusion of my own feelings and try to analyze them as well..Meanwhile my husband forgets that i deal with these things and wonders what crawled under my skin..Haha! He really is so comfy in his own skin. He actually isn't really that frustrated with me ever, and that frustrates me! I want him to seem like he cares more than he does because I feel all alone being so concerned with figuring things out...
balance.
balance needs to happen. Smiley
Comment: The Analytical Women with the Emotional nuances. This is an interesting combination. I WAS Married to someone like that. That Kind of Women, for Me, usually makes a good friend for me, but, as my current Wife observed, is a bad mix for a relationship, sorta like Ray's Unequally Yoked Article describes, an unequal personality mix, mainly due to the over analyzing of every emotional nuance & detail that their Hormones might dictate & more. John Michael pointed this out to me.
From Kat: Another thing I will say is I think God made a means by which in relationships, with the combination of these different strengths and weaknesses of our genders, to enriching our knowledge (physical that is). Because each brings their own gender perspective that can add greatly to the understanding of the other. As well as all the joys and pleasures of you can have in a relationship there is the inevitable problems, which are great avenue for trials and tribulations and if we are to be overcomers, we need something to overcome. So it seems to me this whole male-female thing was design to make possible a great part of the good and evil experiences that we have in this life. I will just leave it at that.
Comment: Your Husband's response about the Rain is quite similar to what my response. Of course, an added factor for Me is that: " I hate rain," I'm consistent about that. We would have to go without Rain for two months up here before you heard a peep from Me. " It never rains in California(Southern Mississippi), Girl don't they warn Ya."
Gena's Response: Conclusion Samson??? It may be more like brains are just different period!!! Wink And Lord I don't know why HE made us all this way!!
Comment: I concur Gena ! On an intellectual level, I do understand, it's on the emotional level, I have yet to come to grips with.
Moises Response: ps. Samson, I hope these thread don't get you in any more little troubles
Comment: I welcome Your response on any Thread I start, but as you figured out, I didn't think to list you as a primary responder, because of Your being Single and asking me for advice in PM's regarding relationships. Asking Me for advice, can you imagine that,
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Grace's Response: Believe it or not but, like you, I used to want an analysis and detailed information about everything and I would also analyze and give detailed information about everything. I would like to think I'm different now but, probably not. Grin . At least you realize you are this way....I didn't even know I was like that until I started noticing people yawn sometimes when I was giving my analysis and details. Cheesy I do see how God is working on me in this area though because just like I said at the beginning of this post....now, I give quick answers at times and don't give details or reasons for them and even with that they can be misunderstood or seem "short" to others and I usually get myself in trouble if I don't explain myself (go figure!). My husband was just the opposite too. He never explained anything and I took everything he said the wrong way.
Comment: Grace, You have nothing to apologize for. By the way, I value John Michael's opinion and He speaks very highly of you. Regarding the Yawning, I often tell my wife that She probably broke the Guiness world record for Yawns. You other comments somewhat parallel Moxicarose. Actually Kat's very analytical too, no Girly Girl Bimbo in Her, She's Analytical without the emotional nuances. By the way, I wasn't implying that you were a Girly Girl Bimbo, actually, that's a term My wife came up with,
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Well, aside from Longhorn's Humor, as expected & appreciated, that should cover it, aside from those like Daywalker who acknowledged their pleasure & agreement. Rene said She would be annoyed with Me too, kind of anticipated She would have been,
, I can be a very annoying person, mainly due to my hyperactivity & nervous energy, ask My wife,
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