Hello, Eileen,
The reason why Jesus was born like us, and not created as Adam, because He had to be like us in EVERY aspect.
Born of a woman through the womb which is the gate.
Gate also means door, a door that opens another dimension.
He had to be born in this dimension through the womb, like us, and us must pass into
another dimension (the kingdom of our father) through Him, which is the door (gate).
So, think about it like this:
The gate to this earthly dimension is the womb.
The gate to the Kindom(heavenly dimension) is Jesus, which in every aspect was like us, in order that we must be qualified to enter.
This is supported by the following scriptures:
John10:1-4
"Verily, verily, I say to you, He that enters not by the door (womb) into the sheepfold, but climbs
up some other way, the same is a thief and a robber."
"But he that enters in by the door (womb) is the Shepperd of the sheep."
"To him the porter(the Father) opens;and the sheep(us) hear his voice: and he(Jesus) calls his
own sheep (the called) by name (before you were in your mother's womb, I knew you), and lead them
out(of this world into the Kindom.)"
"And when he puts forth his own sheep (us, him like us), he goes before them (the first born into the Kindom)
and the sheep (the chosen) follow him (to the end): for they know his voice. (the language of the Kindom,
which is the language of love, which only the chosen can hear, because they were given ears)"
"The said Jesus to them again, Verily, verily, I say to you, I am the door (to the Kindom of the Father)
of (for) the sheep (us)." v.7
"I am the door: (of the Kindom) by Me if any man (must be a man) he shall be saved, and shall
go in and out, (whom all the KEYS[understanding] of the Kindom are given,[the chosen and the faithfull])
and find pasture (spiritual food)." v.9
Also:
"Sanctify (dedicate) to Me all the FIRST BORN, whatsoever OPENS THE WOMB among the children
of Israel, both of man and of beast: IT IS MINE." Exo.13:2
"That you shall set apart TO THE LORD all that open the MATRIX (womb), and every FIRSTLING.....
.........THE MALES SHALL BE THE LORD'S." V.12 ALSO SEE V. 15!
Mary means rebellious, bitter (gk.#3137) from #0413 (Heb) meaning the same thing, from #04805 (Heb.) which means rebellion, bitterness.
"And when they came to Marah (#04785, bitter, from#04751-Mar, bitter, the root word for Mary)
they could not drink of the waters of Marah, for they were bitter: therefore the name of it was called Marah." Exo.15:23
"And Moses cried to the Lord; (see v. 24) and the LORD show him a tree[the cross], which when he
had cast into the waters (see James3), the waters were made sweet:....." v.25
Mary was neither holy nor sweet, but bitter and rebellious (before the Lord was born), as from the seed of the apple
that Eve ate (the tree of knowledge of good[sweet] and evil[bitter]), which came to us through generations!
We are bitter, made sweet by the cross!!!
We carry the seeds of bitterness:
"Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God(after we have been made sweet);
lest ANY ROOT OF BITTERNESS SPRINGING UP TRUBLE YOU, and thereby MANY BE DEFILED;" Heb.12:15
I hope this helps.
Lost in His Love
Ariel