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Kat:

Hi Headdy82,

It starts with baby steps. You have recognized that you have this problem, that is the first step. Every time you take control and realize that it is wrong, it's another step in the right direction. Eventually you should come to a point where you hate the behavior enough that you begin to catch it and step by step begin to reverse it.

It is a process and it can be very gradual, not even noticeable really. But give yourself enough time and don't give up and one day you may look back and see a real difference you've made. No it's usually not a quick and easy process, these bad character traits were a long time in the making so it will take time to overcome. Just keep at it and do the best you can.

mercy, peace and love
Kat

rumpelstiltskin:
John no one was suggesting it is a sin, i was talking about battling the flesh- doing things you don't want to do because God keeps weighing a ten ton truck on your conscience every time you- (meaning anyone) do it. The poster had obviously picked up on this and didn't like it. Who knows if its sin or not, its something they seem to want God to remove.

rumpelstiltskin:
Were does that specify "cotrol freak"

Rito1980:
welcome Headdy :)  thats just self (ego , the inner man) that always wants to have its way. That goes away with time.Just stay focused on God and his word.

thewatchman:
The good news is that Jesus Christ will break control within you through the trials and testing. 3 years from now, look back and notice the change within you.  8)

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