Well I can give you my prospective of how I think the resurrection of the dead will be.
These verses are speaking of the first resurrection.
Mark 13:27 And then He shall send His angels and shall gather His elect from the four winds, from the end of the earth to the end of heaven.
Rev 20:6 Blessed and holy is he who has part in the first resurrection. The second death has no authority over these, but they will be priests of God and of Christ, and will reign with Him a thousand years.
The first resurrection is at Jesus coming and gathering of the elect. So who are the elect, they are His sheep, that know His voice, that are given Christ and are in His Father's hand.
John 10:7 So Jesus again said to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep.
v.8 All who came before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them.
v.9 I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture.
John 10:27 My sheep, unto My voice, hearken,—and, I, know, them, and they follow Me,—
v.28 And, I, give unto them life age-abiding, and in nowise shall they perish, unto times age-abiding; and no one shall carry them off out of my hand.
v.29 What, My Father, hath given Me, is, something greater than all, and, no one, can carry off out of the hand of my Father:—
v.30 I and the Father, are, one.
John 15:4 Abide in Me, and, I, in you. Just as, the branch, cannot be bearing fruit of itself, except it abide in the Vine, so, neither, ye, except, in me, ye abide.
So the elect are gathered at the first resurrection and now are in the kingdom.
1Cor 15:23 But each in his own order: Christ the firstfruits, then at His coming those who belong to Christ.
The elect are the overcomers and their name is in the book of life.
Rev 3:5 The one who overcomes, this one will be clothed in white clothing. And I will not blot out his name out of the Book of Life, but I will confess his name before My Father and before His angels.
If your name is not in the book of life, the only thing left is the lake of fire.
Rev 20:15 And if anyone was not found having been written in the Book of Life, he was cast into the Lake of Fire.
Rev 21:8 But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death."
Luk 12:47 And, that servant, who had come to know the will of his lord, and neither prepared, nor wrought unto his will, shall be beaten with many stripes;
Luk 12:48 Whereas, he who had not come to know, and did things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. And, every one to whom was given much, much, shall be sought from him; and, he to whom they committed much, for more than common, will they ask him.
I do not believe the lake of fire is going to be a horrible place for all that go there.
We all know people that are loving, caring and sweet and innocent little children, I certainly do not feel they will suffer greatly. What about those prophets of the OT and John the Baptist, I believe they will receive the knowledge of Jesus as the Christ quickly (few stripes).
All who did not have Christ living in them will be cast into the lake of fire, that will be just about all of the human race that ever lived, except a very few.
The lake of fire is that few, the elect, and they will teach them about Christ and guide them all to salvation.
Some will not desire this at all and they will suffer, until they turn from there carnal way of thinking (many stripes).
So I think it will be a process that will be longer for some, but brief and not that bad for others.
The elect are going through judgment now, it is not pleasant at times. So all have to go through judgment now or later.
Well that's what I think.
mercy, peace, and love
Kat