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Jackie Lee:
Does anyone believe this practice is wrong?
 A close older relative always tells me all the good things another has done for her.
She used to drive me almost to the brink.
The more I would do for her the more she would tell me how someone else did more and better at it.
I believe it causes strife and hard feelings between family members.
I can see nothing good coming from this, I believe it is practicing witchcraft whether knowing or unknowing.
I am having my eyes opened that flesh and blood is just carnal and emotional.
Any thoughts or corrections will be greatly appreciated.

brandon h:
"Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience,
Therefore do not be partakers with them,
for you were formerly darkness, but now you are light in the Lord; walk as children of light" (Eph 5-6 NASV)

People who have nothing better to do than to manipulate other people's feelings and emotions do not deserve the time and energy. I suggest simply prayer and confidence in God's will

God Bless

Matt:
I guess it all depends on how close the relative is and why you continue to do kind things for her.

Galatians 6
 7Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
8For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.
9And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.
10As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.

I would not be overly concerned with her game playing.  As long as no harm comes to you or another loved one, I would just do good if that is really in your heart and not worry.  The Lord knows your true intention and love for her.
 :)
Matt

Little Joe:
I agree with Matt

Romans 12:20

 20Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.

You may be doing more good then you think!

Jackie Lee:
Thanks for the replies, I agree with you Matthew I have to continue to do good even though at times it is stressful to know that mother is playing one grown child against another.
I have separated myself from the strife and continue to help.
It wasn't quite as hard to do as I thought, I just have to let the comments not sink into my spirit.

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