This is the conclusion that Solomon came to.
Ecc 2:8 I also gathered for myself silver and gold and the treasure of kings and provinces; I got singers, both men and women, and many concubines, man's delight.
v. 9 So I became great and surpassed all who were before me in Jerusalem; also my wisdom remained with me.
v. 10 And whatever my eyes desired I did not keep from them; I kept my heart from no pleasure, for my heart found pleasure in all my toil, and this was my reward for all my toil.
v. 11 Then I considered all that my hands had done and the toil I had spent in doing it, and behold, all was vanity and a striving after wind, and there was nothing to be gained under the sun.
Ecc 12:13 The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God, and keep his commandments; for this is the whole duty of man.
v. 14 For God will bring every deed into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil.
Heb 13:5 Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you."
I think our ultimate goal is to be "content with such things as you have," not that I have gotten there yet.
If God so blesses you with nice things, I see no need to reject them.
But hopefully these things will not gain more attention from us than our spiritual needs. Remember the Parable of the Rich Fool.
Luk 12:19 And I will say to my soul, "Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years; take your ease; eat, drink, and be merry."'
v. 20 But God said to him, "Fool! This night your soul will be required of you; then whose will those things be which you have provided?'
v. 21 "So is he who lays up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God."
Just for thought.
mercy, peace and love
Kat