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ez2u:
I need prayer for this  some sound advice  i don't like to discuss this subject  but things are coming to a head in this household  and we really do need prayer  i have tried for quiet some time now to be honest as i to myself  i can't say i have been right  about things  but i have been trying to be a seeker of truth.  All my life  i have been abused.  earlier on on this forum  i had share some of that abuse  i will not go into it now and i don't want to sound like i am feeling sorry for my self  on the contrary.  i hate that position of ones mind and try to move awayy from it.  I want to live and experience  the richness of life  that i know God has in Him.  It took me many years to come to this place, in my life,  to understand abuse and set boundaries with the love ones in my life and not to give to much of myself   throwing my pearls  before the swine nature.  I have been  married for 24 years  to a man who is abusive  many ways.  When i first married him  i did not understand life and the people in your life your family,  mine abused me when i was a child, wasn't suppose to acr these ways.   It took many years to undo the abuse thinking and patterns.  Tonight my husband  threw me up against a wall several times. I was upset he had  complete control over our money and manage it so poorly and the opportunities  we had.  It has greatly hurt us.  no it was not a screaming match
and yes he has done worst physical abuse then this.  the change is me  i told him i would not allow him to do this again and not to come back until he repents and stops.  i have very little confidence  he is going to stop   so pretty much   my life has been turn upside down  once again   i really have no one   i  am pretty alone    please pray with me  peggy

Jackie Lee:
Peggy I sure will pray for you and your household, my husband handles all the money also I am not always pleased.
I have been praying about my situation so not burdensome to pray for yours and your safety.  :'(

Ninny:
Peggy, God doesn't expect for you to live in abuse, your husband is supposed to be your protector not your abuser. I cannot tell you what to do, but unless you do something soon something will be lost in you. I am not trained in any way or experienced in it at all so all I can offer you is a promise, I will promise you that I will pray for you. God has your answer, I know there is a way out. I will be praying for help and that God will send someone to help you. You are NOT alone. God has a purpose for your life. "Please God, help Peggy to know what to do, help her to rely on you for the answer. Help her to live in your will and give her peace. Amen"
In prayer,
Kathy :'(

cjwood:
dear peggy,
i will pray for you daily. i know that the forum is a safe place for you. i do not know your situation other than that you are my sister in Christ and you are hurting emotionally, mentally, and physically. God will protect you but you must take steps to protect yourself too. you mentioned in your post that you told your husband to not come back until he repents and stops. your husband does not understand repentance. he cannot unless he is a true believer in God and His Son, and if he has been physically abusing you during your marriage it is apparent that he is not a true believer. it is a Truth that will God all things are possible, but i ask you to not be naive about the situation you are in. i don't know if you work outside the home, but if you don't, your husband has no reason to change because he knows you are dependent on him. i am concerned for your safety. please seek help  if possible from a safe place for women in abusive relationships. they can give you advice and a place to stay if you need one. i wish i could be with you to sit by you and give you a hug. you are our sister and we love you.

claudia

Marlene:
Peggy, I grew up in an abusive home. My Father abused my Mother. It was really hard on us children as well as her. He didn't however control all the money. She separated from him at one time . I will keep you in my prayers as I know how this can be very dangerous. Do you have any shelters for abused women?  Claudia is right you need to seek some help. There may become a time that you can't get help. Do you have a friend close to you that could help? It breaks my heart to hear this for a Sister in Christ. I hate that for all women. I will keep you in my prayers. But, please try and get some help if possible.
I would be afraid to go back to him.

In His Love,
Marlene

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