Since coming to BT, this is one matter that has bothered me. What really does happen after we die. Ray taught that our spirits return to God for safekeeping until the resurrection and our bodies sleep in the dust, knowing nothing. But how comforting is the thought, or rather the Word, if it be true? Personally, I like heaven, cherub, harps and all.
My neighbor passed away recently. My six year old called her chocolate aunty. So I told her that chocolate aunty had died, she'd been sick awhile. My daughter looked sad, then asked, 'what will she do with her house, will she never come alive? She will, I replied. When? When Jesus comes back. When will that be? Soon, I smiled. She seemed to have no problem accepting the truth. Perhaps that's why Jesus said we ought to be like little children if we are to inherit the Kingdom.
I think that if our understanding of the Word is true, it will comfort. Jesus is our comforter and He is the Word.