Pro 16:9 A man's heart plans his way, but Jehovah directs his steps.
Jer 10:23 I know, O LORD, that the way of man is not in himself, that it is not in man who walks to direct his steps.
So in His sovereignty God directs our steps, to be a certain way, from started to finish.
Isa 46:10 declaring the end from the beginning, and from the past things which were not done, saying, My purpose shall stand, and I will do all My pleasure;
God knows exactly how our lives will go, we do have choices to make all along the way, but even those are all caused, because God's will (sovereignty) and purpose are is to have this age to be a certain way.
Is this the reason behind what Paul (all of us) says ‘for what I desire, that I do not; but what I hate, that I do.‘
I don't see it as God controls what we think, wouldn't that be what makes us accountable, we think things out in our mind and heart and actually decide to carry out the words or action according to our own desire. But it was brought about from the causes that lead us to it.
Rom 7:15 For that which I do, I know not. For what I desire, that I do not do; but what I hate, that I do.
v.16 If then I do that which I do not desire, I consent to the law that it is good.
v.17 But now it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwells in me.
v.18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) dwells no good thing. For to will is present with me, but how to perform that which is good I do not find.
v.19 For I do not do the good that I desire; but the evil which I do not will, that I do.
v.20 But if I do what I do not desire, it is no more I working it out, but sin dwelling in me. (MKJV)
We are all carnal and subject to the weaknesses of the flesh. If it were left up to us to decide, wouldn’t we always choose the easy way. It takes an all knowing sovereign God to devise this plan and the path of this life to have people in His kingdom that He needs, and we gain what we need to learn in this life. But most certainly it all will be to the glory of the Most High God.
Rom 9:15 For he says to Moses, "I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion."
v.16 So then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy.
v.17 In the Scriptures the Lord says to Pharaoh of Egypt, "I let you become king, so that I could show you my power and be praised by all people on earth."
v.18 Everything depends on what God decides to do, and he can either have pity on people or make them stubborn.
v.19 Someone may ask, "How can God blame us, if he makes us behave in the way he wants us to?"
v.20 But, my friend, I ask, "Who do you think you are to question God? Does the clay have the right to ask the potter why he shaped it the way he did?
v.21 Doesn't a potter have the right to make a fancy bowl and a plain bowl out of the same lump of clay?"
v.22 God wanted to show his anger and reveal his power against everyone who deserved to be destroyed. But instead, he patiently put up with them.
v.23 He did this by showing how glorious he is when he has pity on the people he has chosen to share in his glory. (CEV)
Dan 2:20 "Our God, your name will be praised forever and forever. You are all-powerful, and you know everything.
v.21 You control human events-- you give rulers their power and take it away, and you are the source of wisdom and knowledge.
Dan 4:35 To him the nations are far less than nothing; God controls the stars in the sky and everyone on this earth. When God does something, we cannot change it or even ask why."
All of this shows there is no free will, it’s hard when we realize that we really do not have control. But sure we do have to make all make my own choices, and it's voluntarily, even though those decisions are causes, but we decided and do it. but things will all turn out the way God already knew it would.
So it’s a comfort to me to know that the Father does “works all things according to the counsel of His own will, for us to be to the praise of His glory…” Eph. 1:11-12
It would be easy to blame God for our suffering, but that would show our lack of understanding, because it’s all for our ultimate good.
1Peter 5:10 But God shows undeserved kindness to everyone. That's why he appointed Christ Jesus to choose you to share in his eternal glory. You will suffer for a while, but God will make you complete, steady, strong, and firm.
v.11 God will be in control forever! Amen.
This helps me comprehend that this is all worth it.
Jam 4:14 yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.
Our time in this world is so short. In the ages to come the suffering of this life will be but a vague memory,
I have a hard time even remembering things from even a few years ago
mercy, peace, and love
Kat