I must be missing the point somewhere?
Jesus washed all 12 Apostles feet then
(Joh 13:10 CLV) Jesus is saying to him, "He who is bathed has no need, except to wash his feet, but is wholly clean. And you are clean, but not all."
(Joh 13:11 CLV) For He was aware who is giving Him up. Therefore He said that "Not all of you are clean."
(Joh 13:12 CLV) When, then, He washes their feet, and took His garments and leans back again, He said to them, "Do you know what I have done to you?
(Joh 13:26 CLV) Jesus, then, is answering and saying, "He it is to whom I, dipping in the morsel, shall be handing it.Dipping in the morsel, then, He is taking it and giving it to Judas, son of Simon Iscariot."
(Joh 13:27 CLV) And after the morsel, then, Satan entered into that man. Jesus, then, is saying to him, "What you are doing, do more quickly."
In the garden
Joh 18:2 CLV) Now Judas also, who is giving Him up, was acquainted with the place, for often was Jesus gathered there with His disciples."
(Joh 18:3 CLV) Judas, then, getting a squad and deputies of the chief priests and Pharisees, is coming there with lanterns and torches and weapons."
(Joh 18:4 CLV) Jesus, then, being aware of all that is coming on Him, coming out, said to them, "Whom are you seeking?
(Joh 18:5 CLV) They answered Him, "Jesus, the Nazarene.Jesus is saying to them, "I am He.Now Judas, also, who is giving Him up, stood with them."
Jesus himself says
Luk 22:48 Now Jesus said to him, "Judas, with a kiss are you giving up the Son of Mankind?[/b]
Bobf ..You are right jesus did not say that Judas did betray him but Jesus did say that he... Judas ... "gave him up" and that... was the greater offence.
The jewsish leaders too were in on ...the the giving him up. both corporate and the individual offence
I hope you do not think I am knit picking ....I am trying to undertstand your dilemna and clarify my point
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