While I do not believe in Hell, I am playing Devils advocate with this post.
According to basic Christian theology, we (we being believers) are responsible to evangelize the world and we will be held accountable for those that we do not spread the word to.
The reasons why we fail at evangelizing the world are many, complacency, fear, lack of care, not willing to sacrifice (whatever it would take) money, time, etc.
Once during my church going days I had a thought about just how terrible I was at witnessing, how thoughtless I was to feel great about my salvation while those I failed to witness to are either burning in hell forever or simply eternally separated from God doomed to an eternal sorrow and regret.
Sorry, Christians, the appeal to emotion to trivialize eternal separation from God by saying it is not "torture" but eternal sorrow have NO clue the torture depression really is. So to say separation from God would not be torture is pathetic.
With that said, If hell is real, and I have failed loved ones and friends and a stranger on the street, then I choose to be with those I failed.
My prayer is that God send me to hell too, because if I failed them and there is no mercy for those I failed from the "LOVING" God. Then I cannot with good conscience allow myself eternal bliss.
I choose Hell