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Welp, the Divorce rate just spiked!!
Linny:
Christopher and Claudia,
I was so sorry to read of the trials you both are going through.
I pray that your pain will bring you closer, rather than further, from God.
I realize this is probably a difficult concept right now.
The pain of loss of a loved one is so heart wrenching.
You are both in my prayers.
Love, Lin
eggi:
Dear Daywalker, and all,
I just know that God will see you through in this, even though it feels devastating now. I will pray for both you and your wife, and all others on the Forum who have passed through similar experiences.
God bless you all,
Eirik
jingle52:
I’m so sorry for your current circumstances Daywalker, I add my prayers to the above brothers and sisters in empathising/sympathising and supporting you in this current heartbreak and pain.
Claudia, Judy, Johnmichael and the testimonies of others who went through this heartbreak or similar experiences (as I also have), it is devastating to know that someone so close and loved has betrayed that trust you had in them. When we take our vows, we are convinced in that moment it will be for better or for worse (and that the worse can be worked through), but often times it is not. :(
The truths that we have come to know has made and will make us stronger and give us peace, but the daily struggles and trials of our lives we have to live through, as this is God’s will.
God Bless us all! :D
daywalker:
--- Quote from: cjwood on July 11, 2011, 03:23:15 AM ---dear christopher, my heart aches with you, in tandem. :'(
5 yrs ago, on christmas eve morning, i opened the door into our computer room and found my husband web camming, frontal nudity and all, with a woman in another country. out of left field for sure!
as soon as i read your tragic post this evening, i felt the very same sickening kick, square in the solar plexus, just like i did 5 yrs ago.
i am so sorry that you find yourself in a place now you never even considered you would ever have to arrive at. surreal at times, especially at first. :'(
approximately 3 wks. ago i found out my husband (9mths dating/19yrs married, tomorrow actually) :( , was having another online relationship, which then crossed into fantasy tales being written and passed between the two of them, which included multiple sex scenes. this time it was with a woman i have considered my friend for the past 4 yrs. this time, the options have been exhausted. this time, it IS time, for me to proceed with separating myself from this marriage.
the overwhelming, unbearable, deep ache in your heart is an actual pain, felt physically. a bazillion questions and hypotheticals bombard your mind, weaving into your soul. your very faith and trust that Father Creator loves us so much, that He draws us into His bosom of security and rest; as visualized in great hugs of affection, is put to the test, front and center. circumstances cause so many questions.
i am now sitting here, trying to find words to soothe your heartache, and the sense that you have lost all direction. spun around like a top and left to land where you end up.
i am finding that sometimes, there are no words to say.
sometimes, the deafening silence can render us mute.
seemingly frozen, unable to move in any direction.
but, christopher, the deep, deep silences are needed.
just as the voices are, of our beloved brothers and sisters in Christ on this forum.
everyday for the past 3 wks. i wanted to post a request for prayer on my behalf, and for my husband. to bare my pain. to cry out that i was broken. but, i was frozen. stuck.
now i get an inkling of why it was not time for me yet to 'go public'.
it's always about timing.
God's perfect, precise timing.
the time for your wife to expose her heart to you had not yet happened.
now, as brother and sister in His Truth, Love, heartbreak and pain, we can help carry each others' cross for a little while. :)
please forgive me dear daywalker, and forum family, for going on so long...
i will keep you in my prayers. continually.
His peace will come. He gives us just enough light for our feet, so we don't trip up looking too far ahead.
Jesus Christ is our True Beloved.
claudia
--- End quote ---
O my gosh, Claudia! I'm so sorry. I'll keep you in my prayers as well.
Christopher
daywalker:
Hey,
I just wanted to thank EVERYONE for your overwhelming support. Each post was inspiring and well-received. These last few days have been the very worst of my life. I know that God works all out for good, but right now it's hard to see that through these tearful eyes. Now, that this has happened, I can look back and see some of the warning signs, but unfortunately at the time, they were too subtle. I soo wish that we could atleast try to work it out, but she's convinced it's over. She says she loves me and I'm her best friend, but she's no longer "in love" with me. Not the kind of words you wanna hear from your significant other.
Thanks again everyone for your love and support.
Christopher
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