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Deborah-Leigh:


You have mis-understood me Gina.

I meant no offence to either men or women.

Rob M:
Thanks for sticking up for my gender Gina!!  Just this past year I twice walked a woman home to make sure they arrived safe...and twice I was enticed to go up stairs for...uh...well you know!  I said no to both because this is not the type of thing I'm looking for.

I'm sure God was testing me (but if He knows the outcome is it a test?) but to sleep with these women was wrong...mainly because I didn't need the headache of trying to explain my actions to them in the morning! I didn't want to hurt any feelings with a "wham bam thank you ma'am" and sneak out the door! 

Now if God will only send me my Queen so I don't find myself in those scenarios ever again!

                                                                                                                        Rob

Deborah-Leigh:


Ah...you are a Prince Rob M, alongside our Moises.... 8)...and we have others that come to mind,  here in BTF... :)

So you see. It is not just us gals that have to get ready for our King...you guys are preparing for your Reign with the King of kings, and Lord of lords too!

Beautiful stuff indeed!

It's all good.  :)

Gina:
You're very welcome Rob.  I personally am doing my best to look at the issue objectively so as not descend into the abyss of unchecked female emotion.  haha.  You know how we get. lol 

Good on you for not taking the women up on their offers!!   SHAME on them for wanting sex!!!  How dare they?!  For your faithfulness and righteousness, I shall bestow on thee 3 trillion gilded kudos!  Blinnnnggggg....  !! 

What's interesting is that you knew you were not a WBTYM type of guy.   I don't think all men are like that.  And that's still not quite as bad as a woman enticing a man to marry her and then wam-bamming and thanking the man with the gift of alimony, taking the house, the kids, and making him look like the bad guy when really the woman just wanted out of the marriage because she didn't want to have sex with her husband anymore.  Not to say that men have never treated women badly.  But that's what this book discusses.

Rob M:
Hi Gina..I hope when you said "You knew you were a WBTYM type of guy" you just forgot to incert the word 'NOT' lol!  And for the record I did not judge them or think any less of them.

I've been through what that book discusses...I came home from work only to be told it's over and no second chances, next thing I knew I was in court. My lawyer told me at the time that it was her preogative if she wished to have a relationship with me or not. Man I was so hurt, I loved that woman more than anything and would have done anything for her. It took a long time to get over her and we are now friends.

But I can't help feeling there is a double standard in all this....because if I would have left her, society would accuse me of abandoning her and the kids..go figure.  But all is of God, so what do I know?

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