Yes this is my contemplations, but meditated on considering what is stated in Scriptures and not an emotional responce. Now of course these physical bodies that we have now are for a purpose that goes beyond this life. I believe the reason we are born into this physical creation is so we can have this life experience and develop the characteristics and personalities that make us the unique individuals we are. God wants children, but He wants many variations of this human intellect that we develop, He could make us robots, but that's not what He wants. He already has myriads of angels created in exact designs to serve Him.
Now with this physical process He is developing the incredible varied distinctions that this life brings about, the most obvious is the male and female. But just think about all the variables that are in this life so that no two people come out the same; family, social class, environment, location, era, and then we have our own set of personal circumstances; gender, personality, health and trials. We all turn out as unique individuals and I think it is totally designed that way and will not be lose in resurrection. Why would God erase the personality and characteristics that has taken so much time and effort to develop that make us such interesting individuals? I believe that is a major important reason that we have this life and what God is seeking, a huge family of unique and interesting beings. I think after resurrection we will recognize each other as who we are/were.
Though of course there will be a huge difference, when we lose the flesh in the resurrection that will remove the corruption it contains and the desires that go with it. We will no longer be carnal flesh, we will be born into the kingdom and be in the image of God and He certainly does not have the pulls/desires of the flesh. We will be "like Him" (1Jn 3:2) in that Christ was the perfect servant of the Father.
John 5:30 I can of Myself do nothing. As I hear, I judge; and My judgment is righteous, because I do not seek My own will but the will of the Father who sent Me.
When we are born into the kingdom, married to Christ and become one with God and all of the fleshly desire will vanish with the corrupt/carnal flesh. We will be "like" Christ in that our utmost desire will not be to self, but to do the will of the Father. At that time where would there be a place for the physical bestial sexual desires of the carnal fleshly appetite? The physical flesh is temporary, it is just the means needed to accomplish a greater purpose for us and we will leave all this base carnal desires behind.
What will it be like to put on the spiritual body, maybe Paul when he was taken to the 3rd heaven got an idea. But even then there was no way for him to explain it, as I guess it just doesn't compare to anything physical.
2Co 12:3-4 And I know that this man was caught up into paradise--whether in the body or out of the body I do not know, God knows-- and he heard things that cannot be told, which man may not utter.
But Paul does say that God will not leave us completely in the dark on the mysteries and depths of God, who does reveal things as He sees fit.
1Co 2:9-10 But, as it is written, "What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him"-- these things God has revealed to us through the Spirit. For the Spirit searches everything, even the depths of God.
Mat 13:11 He answered and said to them, "Because it has been given to you to know the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it has not been given.
mercy, peace and love
Kat