[This script is not about explaining truths of the bible to others, this is about close relationships]
You can’t truly love phileo when there is no truth in between. This love lies.
We can’t truly love agapao with out truth. This love lies too.
We must kill the lies with truth, even when this means that with time pass by we must be ready to see certain people walk away of our life’s (physically or spiritually).
How can we really love others without truth? We can’t because Love is truth, but we can wrongly sometimes try to teach what is true without love…
We can toss little seeds, maybe sometimes give opinions, ANSWER QUESTIONS and be grateful with unbelievers and carnal Christians but this does not mean that we can be bound in mutual understanding, brotherly love, fairly giving and receiving witch is phileo love. It is agape love when you don’t care if you don’t receive truth back, when you are just giving one-way street.
It’s true; teach the truth without love kills, But also: Show true love kills.
Start acting more often with true, and many around you will start feeling uncomfortable, they are not used to it, but we must persevere fighting, I guess it’s a gradually process, but it’s worthy.
Agapao and phileo love for our brothers
And just agapao love for the rest
Try to go way deeper on conversation with anybody and with the attention enough you will realize what they are really looking for in life. What if you want to keep searching for truths and try to get closer of a piety life and they want to be rich and buy a lot of things that they don’t really need?, What if you want to get away of many of your own mistakes and they are not even aware of theirs?, What if you believe that everything at the end will work out for the good of everyone and they think that you are nuts by believing that?
So let’s pray to be able to learn to leave our selfish pretensions behind, let’s look at the mirror and detect the enemy because the most evil is removed from us, the most purely we will be able to Love.
Gratuitously we got; gratuitously lets be giving.
This is just a review of what I have understood from Rays papers: ‘different kind of loves’, ‘unequally yoked’, ‘the kiss of death’ and IICor.6:14-16.
Also all this came into my thoughts because this phrase: ‘Love with out true kills, truth with out love lies.’