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Ninny:
Peggy, you are worth very much whether or not you believe it. You are talking just as I would expect an oppressed person to talk.  You have been fed these lies since childhood.  Do your children love and respect you? If they do then I think you should tell them what you're going through. They need to know how much pain you are in right now. If they could at least be praying for you if they don't know about what's been going on all this time then you need to tell them. I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your kids, but you need them right now.

Right now it doesn't feel like God is merciful or loving, but I know he is. I am going to keep praying that He will send you help. You need help and God is going to send it. Please hang on and take care of yourself. Post whenever you need to talk we will be here listening and praying.
Love,
Kathy

Marlene:
Peggy, My Mother still to this day struggles with her abusiveness from My Father. He cheated and abused her for several of there marriage years. She thinks she is not valuable. I try to build her up. She believes in God, but often gets upset when I talk about God. My Father did change, but I know that there relationship was never what it could have been.
There is no one I believe but God who can gives us our self-worth. You are very valuable. I had a friend who was a singer. He wrote a song for a friend going through a divorce. It is called It The Love Of The Lord That Makes A Difference. We can all continue to pray for you. I believe prayer works.

My sister married an abusive man. When, we were little if I cried she would tell me get tuff. I however, grew up trying to fix my parents problems. It was a hard place to be. Now, to tell you how I dealt with it as a child. I would go out on my swing set and talk to God. It was the place I could go where no one could hurt me for whatever time I spent with him. I think going to God is about the best thing one can do.

It was kind of sad. My Sister was saving herself for marriage and she got raped. She had a child from this. My Father turned the other way. He took care of that little Girl from that rape. My sister never dated till my neice was 15 and then she married an abusive Man. She has grown hard from this life. They were married 20 years and divorced.  So, this can be come a cycle. I really do believe when you come from homes like that you can either be abusive or set yourself up for the very same thing in your life.

I wish, I had the answer. Cause I could help my 87 year old Mother.  I have been hurt by someone I loved and was going to marry. We never got married.
When, we get married we really are marrying strangers. We never know what that person will turn out like. Also, I had an Uncle that My Mothers sister married and he helped me to understand my father. But, he was like a Father to me. I went on my search for a man like him. I did find him, but you know it could have been fake too. But, I have been married 29 years now and he has helped me to heal. What, really has helped me to heal is God. I had lots of emotional times in the begining. I know there were times if I was him I would have gave up on me. It doesn't matter is you are beautiful, attractive or whatever they do it regardless if it is in them.

Samson is right. It comes from wanting to control. Lord, I tried to control every situation in my life. I tried to be the Saviour of the World. I had the weight of the world on me. I was wondering if your husband came from a bad home life.

You do whatever you feel is the best for you. I will continue to pray for you.  I know all of us on the forum love you. God loves you .

In His Love,
Marlene

Jackie Lee:
Good advice Marlene for her to do what she believes is right.

Peggy I pray you  have the strength to overcome this, just because your husband wants to keep you under his control, he needs to know he has no control over you only God.
I can't advise anyone but if my husband physically abused me, I can say I would be looking for God to make a way for me to leave.
I don't understand how a man could ever hit their wife, it certainly is not the way it should be.

cjwood:
hi peggy,
i have been thinking about you and was wondering how you are doing today? you are going through suffering and i just wanted to remind you that we are praying for you. you are God's daughter and you are very valuable to Him and to us.

claudia

Marlene:
Peggy, Been praying for you and thinking about you. I sure hope you are ok. Just know that we on the forum love you.

In His Love,
Marlene

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