There is a HUGE false teaching that hooks onto the soul with cords of sentimentality and carnal feel good emotions that are far from the intimacy with Christ and very near to the affections of man that I see in a battle for credibility. The do goodie feel goodie two shoes v/s the carrying of the cross brethren of Christ who have come out of Babylon.
Arcturus my dear sister, I do understand what you are saying. I'm not at all suggesting that we need to act in some false extreme and be "lovey dovey", or as I like to say it "mushy gushy" ;
. I do have a sense of humour though I may not always show it! But my understanding of what Ray is saying still stands. He directs his sarcasm to those who are prideful, blind to the truth, and what's more important, are passing off their babylonian lies to others with a "know it all attitude". While I agree we can expose heresy, lies, and sins, not every situation warrants that we do this with sarcastic criticism (the woman at the well, and the adultress woman come to mind). If you detect a wall of pride and an unwillingness to learn, then by all means fire away. But everyone processes information differently, and some, I believe are sincerely and honestly struggling.
I'm also not suggesting that those who have been given some thoughtful guidance to the right studies and information, should irritatingly continue with their same questions without doing some work and giving it time and prayer. I know some of the things I have had a frustrating time understanding, have hit me sometime later in total clarity. I have learned God works like that with me, so that I'll never forget the revelation comes directly from him, and not from my own supposed "intelligence".
Anyways, thank you for your kind words Arcturus, and know that I too appreciate your posts and insights. I have always had a pull to root for the underdog, since I've always felt like one myself. But I probably should have stayed silent on this issue since I know for a fact God has not given me the kind of discernment some have in calling people out. Besides, the moderators know how to do this best, and kudos to them.
Peace and love to you sister, and to everyone else!
Diana